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Should I open up a bit?Trust Issues....

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xxxmegan (Age:Under 18)     When: 4 months ago
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So I've been talking with this dude I like and we're both perverted and we always talk about sex,just for fun, and he asks me a lot of questions. Two years ago I got in some "trouble" with some of my dead boyfriend's friends, so I'm very sensitive about talking about myself,sexually.

I get uncomfortable when people know too much about me.

I have trust issues,so he thinks I'm lying to him because I don't tell him anything.So I'm wondering if I should sacrifice my comfort for him.

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sillyflygirl (Age:Over 45)      When: 4 months ago
No way. Never, Ever give another person so much information that you lose your identity. This even includes marriages, etc. You have to be you to please you so you can please them.

Anyway, sorry about boyfriends' passing, both my sister and I have been there. Getting to know someone doesn't include owning. You both just need to chill, have fun, see what you have in common and build on that. It sounds like you both have interest and fun. He might just be nervous, so give him heads up with suggestions on situations you both can enjoy. Good Luck!
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Question Asker Thanks,you've really made me understand things better : ] - 4 months ago

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gravygirl (Age:30 to 35)      When: 4 months ago
I don't see any reason to open up unless you are actually comfortable with this guy. It doesn't seem like you are. It seems like you are a bit wary. If that's the case, then trust your instincts and don't say anything until you trust him.
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Question Asker You've really been really helpful,thank you - 4 months ago
 
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