I think I am pregnant by my boyfriend and I am pissed off, what do I do?

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Calm down for me, dear. Count to 10. You have options.

If you are pregnant, you can terminate the pregnancy or you can keep the child. This is a personal decision that nobody will be able to decide for you.

What would I do? I would terminate the pregnancy since it sounds like you are not in a good position to care for a child. Right now, the "child" inside of you is not even 1 millimeter in length. It's just a bundle of cells. It has no brain, no ears, no eyes, no heart, no fingers, no toes.

There are so many things you need to accomplish for yourself, I'd say, from age 18-28 and let's keep it real: a child is going to completely change the course of your life. If I somehow got a girl pregnant, I would FREAK OUT and beg her to end it.

As for your boyfriend, ugh. That's pretty messed up.

Not much you can do but wait. You could try to figure out how far along into your cycle you were when he had unprotected sex with you but it isn't always guaranteed so you need to wait and see if you miss your period.

. and being pregnant is not the end of the world as you have choices these days.

Lastly, you may want to re-evaluate your relationship as I may come from a different school of thought but boyfriend or not, he clearly violated your trust. You may want to also to re-consider the amount of alcohol you consume or perhaps stop when you feel your mind getting cloudy as ultimately you have to look out for yourself since your friends, and boyfriend, don't seem to.

HEY there don't worry about it that much my sister got pregnant at 16 and that didn't stop her she is in college owns 3 cars and a home and is only 18 now so don't give up or nothing like that just look at it as anew start and start preparing for When the time comes. Just push ur self and don't worry about it I think we all guys do what he did at least once that doesn't mean he don't care about you

I hope you pressed charges against the creep!

just take a pregnancy test and if it reads positive take 3 more and if they're all positive your pregnant. There's always adoption

That is rape hunny. I hope you acknowledge that and stop pussyfooting around your asshole boyfriend. If you are as smart as you seem to think you are, if you are as ambitious as you say you are, if you have worked hard to be where you are, why won't you realise that you have been raped, and dump his ass before he causes you more grief.

And my first thought reading this was that he may have meant to try and get you preggers

1) He was sober.
2) You were too incompacitated to refuse.
3) He didn't tell you until it was too late for plan B.

More importantly, understand that you were bloody RAPED. Your boyfriend can be placed in jail. I suggest you press charges.

But no... you're more concerned about "getting fat". Not that your boyfriend is a rapist. I wish you luck... you look like you're heading down a path of self-destruction.

UH Can we say DATE RAPE - I agree you don't need a kid. butthere is also people that are begging for kids. Your Boyfriend is TRASH, and I think I would be real concerned that he did this. its creepy. and ignorant. I wish you the best. I would TELL him then I would tell him a lot more ...

I know this isn't what you want to hear, but your boyfriend, knowing you were incapable of making a decision, can be seen as having raped you.

"Whoever . knowingly causes another person to engage in a sexual act by threatening or placing that other person in fear (other than by threatening or placing that other person in fear that any person will be subjected to death, serious bodily injury, or kidnapping); or engages in a sexual act with another person if that other person is incapable of appraising the nature of the conduct; or physically incapable of declining participation in, or communicating unwillingness to engage in, that sexual act."

this is taken from the US code. I'm not saying you should press charges, but you definitely need to reevaluate your relationship with this guy. he not only had sex with you when you were incapacitated, but he possibly got you pregnant. this doesn't seem like a healthy relationship, but you are the one that needs to decide this for yourself.

also, I understand not wanting to have a child at your age. I don't want to get pregnant either. that's why I took it into my own hands and take birth control pills. that might be something worth looking into in the future, because condoms are only effective around 85% of the time. if you are pregnant, and decide to have an abortion, look into counseling for it. you may find it harder to go through with than you thought, and there are people out there that can help you out.

hopefully I've been helpful, and please please see that your boyfriend did treat you terribly and that he may not be someone you want in your life.

are you going to have an abortion?
I'm just really curious, sorry

Your question is seriously concerning. More so for your reaction and the situation then for being pregnant.

I agree that you shouldn't raise a child just after reading your email. You aren't really worthy of it and I'm surprised you want to go to graduate school? You aren't really seeming that smart in this post.

Regardless, you may not be pregnant - which is hopefully the case. If you are though, you can consider giving the baby up for adoption (I know this would mean you actually doing something unselfish and good for someone else). Also, I don't think they just hand the morning after pill out to anyone so the chances of getting it the next day would have been very slim - I think that mostly rape patients get them at the hospital - which is by all accounts what happened here - you were a rape victim because you don't remember sex with your boyfriend and he knowingly took advantage of you while you were passed out.

Besides all that - you are afraid to yell at this guy? The guy who had sex with you unprotected and without your consent and knowledge? That is absolutely nuts. You don't yell at this guy and he'll be trying to get you drunk every weekend to take advantage of you. You frankly can press charges against him if you wanted to. What if he had HIV and had unprotected sex with you - would you consider it then? If it wasn't just a baby, but also possible a life threatening disease?

Please - just do the right thing. You haven't done or said it so far. And that would be - yell at and dump this boyfriend, stop drinking!, do the right thing if you are pregnant and immediately get smarter about everything!

If you're sure that you are preggo, then try going for adoption. You might want to have an abortion but that would be killing a beating heart. And plenty of couples can't get pregnant so try getting an agent who can look for a couple who will want your baby.
And you can even choose the couple who will raise your baby, and you guys might have an agreement that will allow you to see your baby every now and then

Trust me you do not wanna b pregnant. I'm about 2 turn 17 in a week and I already have a 1 year old daughter named thalia. its not fun I can't go out with friends. go to parties. and I had 2 change my whole plans 4 the future. I wanted 2 go to college in new york. but I can't because I have 2 take care of my baby. you better hope ur not pregnant. take a pregnancy test and go 2 the doctor. and ur boyfriend iz really stupid 4 having un protected sex with you especially wen you didn't even know. he probably wanted 2 get you pregnant. I think u should think twice about him

First off, are you on birth control, because if you are, you can turn off the crazy switch in your mind, it's over 99% effective alone.
If you are not on b.c. seriously, breath.its not likely that you are pregnant from that one encounter, plus your not going to know until you take a test anyways ( the first response one, can tell you four days b4 your first missed period) so try to chillax. I am saying this out of past experience, I know how stressful thinking your pregnant can be- it totally consumes you, until you know.
Personally I would be mad at him too, because he wasnt drunk he should have made the right decision about wearing a dome, if you guys always do. If you have never had unprotected sex b4- he took advantage of you, and put your future in jeopardy.
I would tell him you need to have a serious talk (this should scare him, haha) But really let him know that the fact he would do something so wreckless really makes you question the way you feel about him. Tell him you need him to apologize and promise never to do that again, because you are not willing to risk it. Sometimes you really just need to reaffirm boundaries in relationships, and this is one of those times.
Good luck chica, and don't freak out too much, tell yourself your not pregnant- it will help

First off,Are you sure your pregnant? Next tell your Parents so they can help you.That's what parents are for.Don't get mad at your boyfriend just talk to him.And you will not be a horrible mother.Tell your parents so they can help you.