Girls, I need help! Close friends not talking, please help

You might not like my answer but here's what I think is going on.

The fact that you're upset about the fact that she hasn't spoken to you after all the flirting she seems to have done shows that you love the attention she's giving you and you may possibly like her too.

However it seems as though she likes you and she's been trying to get your attention, and now she's given up because you may not have given her the response she wanted.

If you just want friendship from her then sure call her and say how you feel because, after all if you are Just Friends then she should understand that she's leaving you out.

Ive gotta disagree with everyone and say that the fact that you are in college and she in high school doesn't matter, age is a number, maturity is what matters.

It sounds to me like she has feelings towards you.and you're doing the right thing by trying to avoid her a little, especially if she's dating one of your buds. However if they were to break up and you think you might actually have feelings for this girl.then I don't see anything wrong with it. I dated a guy in college when I was in high school.if the chemistry is there then its there. Don't feel bad about it. Just wait it out and see.but if I were you I would try not to talk to her as much until she's broken up with your friend. And if you have to, you might say something. Like, 'hey.I don't know if its such a good idea if we talk as much if you're still dating ___" you know? I hope it all works out.

If you just want friendship, call her.
If you want something else. well. there are a lot of reasons why that's probably not a good idea, in which case. you might want to back away from the situation.

Well I disagree! If you just want friendship, you should call her! But if you want more, you still should call her because you never know, you guys could really hit it off and become more than boyfriend and girlfriend.

Oh my gosh. If she is in high school, you can do better. Of course there is chemistry but what are you looking to pursue here? Just leave her alone. You're in college remember that and you can have all the girls you want. Why go for someone who is also messing with some other guy? But it is up to you.

I agree with Anonymous. You are in college, she is in high school.

Also, have you talked to your friend about this? I think if there is this much chemisty between you two, that you should talk to your friend about it (as long as you are really close with your friend and he would know that you are only looking out for his best interest).

If your friend would not take it well, I wouldn't worry too much about it, these things work themselves out. Either way, let this girl know that you are busy with school and stop talking to her, nothing good can come of it.

Like Anonymous said, you are in college, you can have all the girls that you want.