Long distance relationship

It's always nice to know that you are wanted, but I think when another person's advances affects the other relationship partner then it has gone too far.

Talk to your boyfriend and let him know how much it really upsets you, and tell him what you want him to do. Be straight forward here, don't just give hints and hope that he will do what you are thinking.

If, after you have told him how this makes you feel, and that you want it to stop, he still does nothing, then I would seriously consider how much more of your emotions that you should invest into someone that obviously doesn't care about yours.

I completely understand!! My now-husband and I did the long distance thing for a LONG time! My only advice to you is this: If you trust him, trust him. If not: this long distance thing isn't gonna work, especially if you have to do it for a long time. If you have ANY reason to doubt his fidelity at this point, it's pretty much a deal breaker in this situation. I will say this: if he was doing something with this girl, it's pretty unlikely that he would tell you about her at all since he is so far away. The key in this situation is making sure he knows without a doubt that this makes you extremely uncomfortable and he NEEDS to do something about it because he's hurting you by not doing anything. If he still refuses 'cause this girl makes him feel like a stud: I think you know the next step. This is just my opinion and I hope it helps!! Good luck!