How many guy friends is okay?

My best friend's a guy and that's never been a problem with any of my boyfriends. You can't tell her who she can and can't be friends with. If you're engaged you have nothing to worry about with these guys. She loves you not them.

Ok well here goes... I am 20 years old and I understand completely. My boyfriend and I are also planning on marriage. I have more guy friends than girls mainly because I was raised basically connected to the hip of my brother. I was a tomboy by nature and still enjoy riding fourwheelers and getting muddy over getting a manicure and talking gossip and boys to other girls. don't get me wrong I am still totally girly but I am just very suttle. I have s lot of guy friends and recently my boyfriend expressed to me that he is jelous. He said because of the long distance relashionship but I know better than that. It is alright by me that he feels that way because I know its because he loves me.
Honestly, you need to express how you feel and have open communication. Just be sure that she understands completely what you feel and doent think you are trying to control her. My boyfriend suggested that I maybe talk to the guys less at work and I totally took it the wrong way and made him feel bad about it. We later talked and decided that we need to be sure that both sides are understood and that neither of us feels down or bad. And if we do we each have equal responsibility to say so.
Talk to her and tell her exacly how you feel! I am sure that she will understand as long as you don't try to be controling! Just have complete understanding and compassion for her situation! With that, don't forget about yourdelf... you are still important and if you feel discouraged at all you need to express this with her in a rational manner! I hope this helped! Take Care & Goodluck! :)

You're too jealous unless she is a big flirt and only friends with these guys to get male attention. In which case, she needs to find a way to be satisfied with her own self-worth and the attention YOU give her, not her guy friends.

I think that when you feel you're ready to tell her then you should. Don't wait if your ready.

A lot of girls have a lot of male friends because they find other girls to be too; gossipy, trite, vendictive, etc (Ladies, don't get mad at me, this is what I have heard from other girls).

My girlfriend has mostly guy friends, and honestly I am cool with that. She goes out with them, they pay, and she comes home to me (sometimes she orders an extra meal on their tab and brings it home too).

Point is, you have to be confident that the girl that you intend to marry (or love) is with you for a reason, and not with those other guys for the same reason. If it really bothers you, then talk to her about it, but really look at it and make sure that the problem that you have with her having guy friends isn't an issue of your insecurities).

Plus, if she has a lot of guy friends, it's probably that she just relates better to guys. This is a pretty common question though and 99.9% of the time, the real problem is with yourself.