My girlfriend met this guy on hi5 that she chats with sometimes. I was very tight with work at my previous job so didn't get to chat much so she started chatting with him. Apparently they flirted around and he posted comments on her hi5 about her being his one and only, her beautiful lips, her sexy body and him wanting her. Another chat friend called her to tell her to call him after they had a little argument. she did (they live in different countries). He also went and created a facebook account for her with his name with hers as the account name.
I asked her to stop chatting with him and remove him but she insisted he is just a friend and doesn't want to remove him. We argued and she then said she removed him after lots of fighting with us. I checked her account a few days ago and she still has him in all her accounts, she lied. I am not stopping her from having friends but he went too far with the names together and the love and sexy comments he made.
She says this guy was there for her when I was busy. Does she love him? She says she doesn't but why always defending him and not wanting to get rid of him? What am I to do?
I doubt she loves him but I agree with you. She needs to remove him from her account because it's causing a problem with her real relationship and this guy seems a bit screwed up anyway.
I doubt that she loves him… but from my personal experience when a woman starts to BS ya seriously… that's the beginning of the end. With the fact that he lives in a different country, I wouldn't sweat it… but it sounds like you 2 really need to sit down & have a heart to heart. Don't fight about it, don't be confrontational… but address it. To me it sounds like she's trying to cover her ass. Like she might have said or have done something that she's afraid that you would get angry at, & is trying to avoid it. Women are more emotional than they are logical. They might try explain it as though it is logic… but most of the time their impulses are emotional. Try to explain to her how you feel because I kinda hear "Can I trust her" in your voice, & just say to her this is how I feel, I feel that you're doing this & that, & if the tables were turned (you were me & I was you), how'd you feel?" Talk to her about it. I don't think that she gets it. Sometimes you have to say it more than once to get it through.
I have done a lot of stuff for my girlfriend and when I say I love you she sometimes says ya or sure. I really don't know what to do. I don't want to...
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When: 11 months ago
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