Does loyalty exist anymore?

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I've been in three relationships in the past year which have ended with them cheating on me.  I'm attentive, caring, intelligent, thoughtful, yet decisive and independent. I'm confident about my performance in relationships and have never gotten a complaint about anything. The only successful relationship (until we parted ways due to distance) I've had was with someone 9 years older than me and I've always been told to date someone older. My question is this; are most people in their late teens to early twenties (I'm 21 and just got out of a relationship with a girl who was 19.) too immature to hold a meaningful long-term relationship with someone who wants them to be happy as opposed to a 'bad-boy'?

Shlei3 · Accepted Answer

In my opinion yes. Most people in their late teens and early twenties.some even older than that are not looking for anything serious. Plus they are still growing up and evolving. I always wanted to believe that at the age of 18 I was all grown up. Not so. I am 25 and I am just now realizing that I had so much to learn and still do. The difference nowadays is that I have had my fun and now I am ready to mellow out and take life seriously. I don't have time to go to bars, get drunk, have one night stands, have a relationship with a guy based on the fact that we both like to drink and party. I'm not saying everyone is like this. I have dated around and I know what I am looking for. My point is, I think  most people need to go out and experience in order to know what they want down the road.

lvrgirl2011 · Accepted Answer

My best friend is dating this guy who is two years older than her. She isn 15 and he is going to be 18 in a couple months. They have been together for over a year and go to different schools. They have had no reason to not trust one another and are with each other very often. They definately are happy together and anyone can tell that they are in a meaningful relationship. Most people seeing them last for a long time.

Money · Accepted Answer

Of course loyalty exists. and there are 18-22 year olds that are mature enough for long term relationships. The contradiction to that is most people in that age group are not looking to settle down. Some are and you have to find them but not everyone is worried about finding the one at that point in their life.

If you are looking for more mature girl that wants to settle than date older or look for girls going in that direction. You have time.

Also, I am not saying it is your fault but your ex-girlfriends cheated on you for their own reasons and maybe you need to find out what they are. Either you are looking at the wrong type of girls to settle down with or the girls you have been with have been looking for some sort of satisfaction that you just didn't provide.

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