Should I be mad that my boyfriend grinds/freak dances and ejaculate with other girls?

The dancing is only a problem if you have a problem with it, and he knows it but chooses to ignore you. Some people don't mind their partners dancing with others as long as they don't go any further, and some people don't like their partners to even LOOK at the opposite sex. That's between him and you.

As for the ejaculation, just realize that unless he's TRYING to reach climax, it's beyond his control and is something he doesn't want to happen. In telling you about it, he was expressing concern for his problem and trusting you with that embarrassing information.

It's normal to be attracted to other people even while you're in a relationship -- talk to him and, together, set boundaries of what is and is not acceptable. If you don't want him dancing with other girls, tell him that, but don't hold him responsible for being overly-sensitive.

Note: A solution would be to have him masturbate (and ejaculate) before going dancing, which in many cases will give the man a bit more self-control the second time around. If he doesn't have sex or pleasure himself very often, he could just be getting overwhelmed when surrounded by the grinding gals. On the flip side of things, if he masturbates too often and goes for the quickest climax possible that will actually decrease his ability to control himself -- the body becomes accustomed to ejaculating as soon as possible when stimulation is applied. If that's the case, tell him to work on his stamina, rather than going for a 'quick fix'.

Well, in my opinion I think is wrong to grind with other girls when you have a girl weather she's there or not, so I can understand your frustration. That being said, if he does dance with another girl, he most likely has no control on the ejaculation part. (Asides dancing in the first place obv.)

That's seriously weird. I can't even imaginbe being in a relationship with a guy who is regularly orgasming from activities with other women. Even if their clothes are on, it's still pretty messed up.

HELL yeah you have VERY good reasons to get mad.if you are in a commented relationship you don't do stop like that I mean dancing is fine if its just dancing but not no grinding.or ejaculating oh HELL nah.plus I think if you respected you enough he wouldn't do that .and if respected you.if it bothered you he would stop doin that!

Before reading this I was extremely upset with my boyfriend for wanting to freak dance with other girls. We've been together for almost 2 years and this has always been an issue for us. He stopped dancing with girls because he knew it bothered me, but recently he told me that he really enjoyed dancing just for fun. He says that he knows his limits and that he wouldn't do anything to hurt me. I trust him and all, but its just hard to deal with it because we have different mindsets. I realized that I shouldnt get jealous because I know that he loves me and that he really just wants to have a good time. I did stress to him that I wanted him to have the least amount of physical contact with whoever he dances with. I do not want some girl grinding her booty all up on my bf.

As for u, I really think that you have all the right to be mad. I would be so upset if my boyfriend told me this. If he knows that dancing with other girls turns him on then way doesn't he stop? I really think that this is disrespectful. He can dance with you and ejaculate all he wants then, but not with other girls! You seriously need to let him know that it bothers you and if he respects you and values your relationship then he will stop.

Yes it is normal to be upset.

Yes it is. It's disrespectful to the girls and to you.