Am I being patheitc?

Well, first, the "only you matter" is just a line. That's not to say that he doesn't mean it, but just consider that he's meant it many other times before, and probably will mean it many times more in the future. It's amazing how someone goes from saying PersonA matters so much to them, then leaving them for PersonB at which point they start saying they wish they could go back in time to erase PersonA and that only PersonB matters to them.

Second, jealousy is expected. Stop asking so many questions. ;) It won't make you feel any better. You cannot forget about it, all you can do is come to terms with the fact that you're not his first, or his last.

he could be sincere, since he's been with you for a few months, and if he just wanted that pussy he would of dumped you already. But then again, he could b as fake as SHIT

Dear Charlotte Potter,

You are the lucky contestant #39.

I personally think 38 people is a pretty high number. You have been with one person. I would begin to question why a guy who is 22, and has slept with 38 people and is now interested in a 17 yearold girl. Also, take into consideration that you were younger when you lost your virginity to him. I'm not saying he is just using you for sex, but it is something to look out for.

Maybe I only say this because I'm 28 and have slept with only 3 women, but I'm a guy who cares about the people that I have sex with. I have stayed faithful to each of the women I was with.

With the combination of being faithful, worrying about pregnancy, worrying about std's and taking the other persons feelings into consideration, I would find it very difficult to reach a number as high as 38 people.

Someone who is 22 and has slept with 38 people knows how to get a girl into bed. A 17 year old girl who is a virgin is easy pray.

So I ask you, do you think a guy who is 22, has had sex with 38 people and is now having sex with a 17 year old, worries about the things I mentioned above (faithful, pregnancy, std's, your feelings)?

your not being pathetic at all! I would think the same thing. 38 different people?!?!?! get yourself checked out, that's a lot of people! But it doesn't mean he's using you if you dated for 8 months.

*bet you this 22 year old slept with 38 different 16 year olds. eww.

You have to be kidding! Just as soon as this guy tires of what is between your legs he will be off on the hunt for another, if he already doesn't have one ready.
He doesn't sound much like keeping material at all! Sorry just being honest with you.