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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 10 months ago
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There is this girl that I have liked for a long time, and I am pretty sure she likes me too. But she says she has trust issues because of relationships where she was cheated on in the past. How should I help build trust so that she will feel comfortable in a relationship again?

Update: What things can I do to help? What things would be done that would not hurt it?    10 months ago

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babygurl-2008 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
My friends girl has trust issues from past relationships too..but they should realize that not EVERY guy is the same..just like EVERY girls is not the same..if you have't given her a reason not to trust u..then she SHOULD trust u
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kazine It's not as simple as that. It's more of "I know every guy isn't the same, but what if this one is?" - 2 months ago
Answerer Don't give her any reason not to trust you then, if she ask where are you going don't act like its someplace that its not, sometimes calling her when you go out will probably help her relax more, it would kind of show her that your are thinking about her, I maybe a little off subject but just saying. And sometimes when girls have trust issues is because sometimes they are doing something sneeky to I'm not saying she is but sometimes that's the case with anybody. - 2 months ago
kazine Well. Not giving her any reason not to trust you is just HELPING her to get over these trust issues isn't it? It's not just as easy as saying "not all guys are the same, I get it now" and forgetting about any cheating that has happened in the past. - A month ago

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Experience-Babe (Age:18 to 24)      When: 9 months ago
To show her that you can be trust worthy. Try to take her out and let her meet your friends. Converse with her. Spend time together. Give or show her that not everybody is the same. Best way to get to a girls heart is poems,roses,and lots of affection...Meaning feelings.Ask her how was her day,you know show her that you care about her and that you mean what you say. Remember not to get mad. You will have to learn how to deal with it. As you already know she's been hurt and miss treated during her past.

So you will need to be patient. Give her space and time to think about things. Maybe by the end of the year shell be ready to be with someone. So give it all you got and see what happens. Good Luck!
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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)      When: 10 months ago
There is really nothing you can do if she likes you then it will be a chance she's willing to take!!!
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megcarr22 (Age:Under 18)      When: 10 months ago
I'm a girl with trust issues too and I think this is something she has to work at for her self. just make sure she feels comfortable with you, wrap your arms around her to make her feel safe. that would help me with my trust issue so it might work for her to.
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AshleyL (Age:25 to 29)      When: 10 months ago
I think an important thing to do in this case is basically to do what you say you will do. She is looking for someone she can trust. Don't lie to her and don't do anything that would harm that trust. Like others have said keeping your word and making sure she always knows how you feel should help you make big steps in the long run.
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 10 months ago
I'm one of those girls who has trust issues because of past relationships. The way that a guy could get me to break my trust issues is to just simply show me that he just wants me. Continue to be yourself, do not mess around with any other girls, and she will see that you are serious about getting her trust. Trust builds in relationships. After a while she will see that you are sincere:)
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glowgirl3 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 10 months ago
Just SHOW her that you love her and will be there for her. Keeping your word is a HUGE issue and letting her know on a regular basis how wonderful you think she is. When a woman is hurt it can take reassurance and patience but once the barrier is broke it will be worth the work! Good luck! :)
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niceguy14 (Age:Under 18)      When: 10 months ago
Well it mite be hard for u get her trust really fast, but if you just keep being really good friends with her, she will learn to trust you. course, I'm a guy I have had this happen before to me, but a girl is probably better at this.
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beast69e (Age:18 to 24)      When: 10 months ago
Do something spectacular like writing a long ass poem about your feelings to her and how all you need to do is trust you...it might sound corny but do it, it works. BTW don't break her trust when you finally get it either.
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