So me and my boyfriend are both almost 16, he lives in Mass and I live in NH. This is our 2nd time going out, the first time we went out for 3 months, and then I got nervous about him cheating on me and backed out. but a month later he convinced me he still loved me, and we've been back together for almost 3 months now. unfortunatly, his mom hates me, and refuses to let us see each other now that we are dating. the last time I saw him was about 2 months ago, he spent a week up here, and it was amazing. we really love each other, which is why we are trying to make this work despite the distance the problem is that I feel like our relationship is just, dying. he can only call me when his mom isn't around, and lately he hasn't been able to call at all because he has soccer practice. he hates texting, so we're left with AIM convos. that used to be fine, we would play truth or dare and we'd spend hours talking, but lately its like we've run out of things to talk about. he talks more to one of my girl friends then he does to me, and I talk more to my best guy friend in a day then I do with my boyfriend. i don't know when the next time ill see him is, and I feel like I'm going to lose him if our relationship stays at this stand still. what can I do to, spice things up, get us back to how we used to be? is it really possible for two people that love each other to run out of things to talk about and get tired of each other?
Just end it like AJtogo said. You're far to young to be trying to handle a long distance relationship. Find someone locally.
"is it really possible for two people that love each other to run out of things to talk about and get tired of each other?"
Yep, you people grow apart all the time. It doesn't have to be a fight or someone gets cheated on, whatever it is. The two people aren't getting the emotional fullfillment to last. It's okay, perfectly normal.
At your age the answer is yes. Just my opinion, but you're proably better off ending this and getting on with your life. You're in the beginnings of a relationship and that requires being there to build it. Neither of you can do that, no matter how much you feel you want it, so it's best to end it.
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