To make a long story short, I'm with my high school sweetheart, we are getting married in June. I have been married in the past and have a 5 yr old, he has none. So back in high school every girl wanted him, he was a flirt. So now we are together and I have been cheated on in the past and started out not trusting him. Well I got over that.
And then about 4 months later started feeling it again. So I did something dumb and went through his phone and found other girls texting him. In the last 5 months there have been 5 different girls texting him, 2 are from his work, one girl sent him a sexual text and he sent her a text saying what are you suggesting?
When I asked him he said it means nothing that he was joking around, so I turn it around and said ok so I guess it's fine if I do that with another guy and he got pissed.
Now on to another problem. I like to have sex at least 2-3 times a day, so when we have sex I like to go for a second time, but he can't get up again. He said that men can't do that. I mean I help out after the first time, but sometimes even before sex he won't get up, and I do all sorts of things to help him. I have never been in this before, so now I'm starting to feel low about myself, like I'm not hot enough to get my man up.
Then I start thinking things and I don't want to like is it somebody else, I mean he has given me reason. Please help!
The first part of your questions, You need to open the doors of communication and things will get better.
As far as the sex is concerned, there is nothing wrong with you wanting a second, or even third go around. Yes us males do need a little time in between the time we cum and the next time we can get it up again but we can do it assuming that there is no extra stress or health problem.
There are ways that you can get your sexual needs filled and give him the time he needs to get it up again. Use your Heads together and I am sure you can find something to fill the time.
See that's the problem. I do, I dance and tease and strip, play, I mean nothing works and then he gets up and I haven't even got mine yet. And it's really causing problems between us. - More than a year ago
Answerer
Try talking to him and see if there could be different ways you can try to help. He may also want to talk to a doctor to make sure his parts are working correctly. - More than a year ago
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thormoto45
(Age:25 to 29)
When: More than a year ago
That problem can also be brought on by stress, smoking and drinking so...? Any of those going on?
Stress, he smokes too. but even before sex I try the whole striping and dancing, teasing and it doesn't work. Anything will help, I really love him and we are getting married and already having these problems. - More than a year ago
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drinnie156
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
The first problem is all about communication. talk to him about how much it bothers you when he dies that and how it makes you think things that is not healthy for the relationship. your second problem may have nothing to do with you. it could be a biological, or emotional thing. besides they have pills for that now.
We have talked about it and it bothers him too. We are stressed out. Even before sex I try to strip and dance and tease and sometimes it doesn't work. But is it wrong of me to ask for a second time around? - More than a year ago
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