My ex-bf noticed I've lost a significant amount of weight since he last saw me. He's been on my case about it in a way that says he thinks its a bad thing. The deal is I had a relapse with my eating disorder behaviors. He didn't know about this stuff while we were together. Should I tell him? We're not together anymore. We're not getting back together. We're only friends now. But we only talk occasionally. The only real reason I wanted to tell him was because he keeps asking about the weight loss and he thinks I am on drugs and I want to defend myself. He seems to care. I don't want him to worry tho. But I don't like telling ppl. I am terrified he'll ask a million questions that I won't be able to answer. Should I tell him?
If you think it'll hurt you more by telling him, then don't. But I'm pretty sure having someone there with you who cares, and knows your secret, will make life much easier.
it would be nice to let him know. Get a little worry off his back. Don't worry about him asking too many questions, but also don't ignore all of his questions. On another thought, I would sugest you get a little help with your relapse (that will also be another one of his questions.)
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