Ok me and my boyfriend have been together for 6mons, this is both of our 1st real relationship. No major arguments, we get along really well. Now when we met I was well aware of his main goal which is he wants to break into the music world. He makes great beats and is a very good rapper. As we moved into the 6th month, things changed. He wasn't calling as much, he completely stopped coming around. He says that he just looked around one day and felt that the whole year had past and he hadn't gotten his CD finished and that he felt like he was crackin up.
He says he wants to get that done and for us to take it slow. He even cried which is very un-him. As time passes I feel like I'm being stupid for waiting. But I don't want to give up due to our first rough patch.
Give him some more time. If he seems very out-of-it, then break up. This is your first, and hopefully not last boyfriend. People go through many relationships before they find "the one". This is only your first, so break up with him if you are not having the time of your life with him.
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