Me and my boyfriend have been on and of like 4 times. We were together the longest for almost 5 months, but he wanted to leave me 3-4 times. He finally did the day he told me he cheated. I told him I forgive him but he still left. Later he wanted ME back. But I told him no because I was moving away, and he didn't want to see me go. He said he could bare not having me around or my son.
He was there through practically my whole pregnancy. He wasn't in the end because he left me. Come to find out he left me because he took someones advice to leave me because my son isn't his. We got back together after I told him I wasn't leaving but he changed his mind like a week later. Then just one day we were together. But I found out he lied to me about sleeping with someone while we were broke up. So I asked if we were really together or not? He said yes.
And we have been together ever since which has been almost 2 months I think. I love this man to death and it kills me to think he is just using me. He acts different when we are alone then around people. He has said he loves me but I don't know if I believe it or not. How do I ask him to find out the truth so I don't waste my time and get dumped in the long run.
I wrote him a letter almost a month ago that he still hasn't read. It says if he is serious about wanting to be with me then he needs to show it but if he;s not I'm gone for ever. No friendship or anything. I can't love someone that much and have to see or hear about them being with other people. Help. I need to know what to do? And is he's love true?
This sounds like a guy who isn't ready for a serious commitment. I mean he wanted to leave 3-4 times, finally broke up with you, got with another girl and now wants you back but still seems unsure or has feelings that are inconsistent. Sounds like he could be right for you but only in time...
I think you've answered your own question: "He acts different when we are alone then around people.'
Don't waste your time, there is another guy out there who is right for you, this one is not even responsible for his own decisions, makes me mad, someone else told him to leave you? Why, because of your son, this day and age, sorry, girl, it can not be a problem, out to be something else. Just don't make excuses for him, please, you know what I mean:-) If he is serious there is only one way to find out, true feelings do not change, he will follow you anywhere and will find a way to be with you, otherwise, don't you hate the idea of missing the right guy because of him even more?
First of all never chase a man, because that's exactly what you're doing is chasing him away. I he wanted to be with you he wouldn't have left in the first place. Just leave him alone he not worth it. you need to focus on you and your child.
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I'm an outdoors man and so it's important to me that my gal enjoy that too. The ideal date for me is to go on a hike in the mountains and then enjoy a romantic lunch with some cool wine.
I would dress for the hike.
The date ends with us making out a little... and maybe taking in the stars together.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
That I'm sweet and caring, the kind of guy who wants to connect with a woman and have a great relationship together.
(Age:25 to 29)
When: 8 months ago
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