So I'm 20 years old, I've got a great personality, fun to be around, and I've heard from a lot of people that I'm very pretty and I believe it 100%. I'm 5'9, big blue eyes, blonde hair, athletic body, love sports but for some reason I've never had a boyfriend. Does it make a difference to a guy that a girl isn't as talkative, not that I don't talk to people but it's just that I have to be comfortable around them first to be myself.
Also, I'm not into all the partying, drinking, I take school seriously, and I hate to get into trouble because I respect myself and my parents that made me this way... so is it a turn off to be too conservative?
im seeing a girl that is very conservative, and that is not her problem at all. nor is it that she is cute, or that she has a loving family. she is also shy.
but, there is something that dosn;t click. something about the way she takes humor or something.
at some point though, you do need to give up something, I suggest being shy. sounds more like guys are getting mixed signals and then try not to flirt with you because mixed signals can mean anything.
i don't think its a turnoff I just think you should let some of yo standards down. you can still have fun and be focused in school. try walking up to guys and having conversations with them. I know its not easy because its hard for me but once do it you will yes I did it. from you said about yo self you seem like a cool person, so go for it
You know, you sound a lot like me. We're both pretty much attractive people in all aspect, yet we are still single lol So I took some times to figure out the reason/cause. It seems to me that being, or appearing to be, available or approachable is one huge factor. When people like us, the introverts, don't "open" up to the world and be all social, it'll be hard for others to know that we want friends/a date or not.
So heres a link to my tips for girls to appear more available and approachable. And btw, being conservative is good. Of course the old saying goes, too much of anything isn't good. I do not know you personally to say whether or not you're too conservative or not. But from what I have seen, most or almost all girls in our country could be a little more conservative.
Honestly, I think it is a turn off to be too conservative. You don't have to go crazy, but everyone needs to let loose sometimes, and that's when you're likely to meet someone... whether you're partying or just out doing something fun.
You know what's great about being you? If you're smart and pretty, then in most cases, YOU'RE going to be the chooser. It sounds like the problem is that you're shy and don't engage in a lot of regular social activities like partying and drinking. But don't think these are the only social avenues open to you! What are your interests? Find groups that share these interests and if you see a cute guy, you'll instantly have something in common!
It's not a turn off to be so conservative. Just make sure you're bashful and not cold.
I couldn't agree more with you 'notthere'.. you sound like you could easily find a guy.. you just have to get out and meet him! be friendly and definitely not cold and I'm sure you will have guys after you :-P - A month ago
Well, maybe you're too smart for the dumb guys around you, which could be a blessing that you haven't had a boyfriend. Are you in college? You should consider doing a semester abroad to expand your horizons, and then you'll probably be grateful that you're still single.
Maybe the guys you've been around lately are just shy! Get to know them, flirt a little, and talk to them some more! Take action, because their probably not going to right now. Make some new friends and hang around at more places you know you'll find a guy! But you don't even have to do these things. Its perfectly normal to take time.
You just haven't found the perfect man yet. You will find someone, it just takes time! Trust me!
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