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I'm in a relationship but love someone else... What should I do?

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CheekyJay (Age:25 to 29)     When: 11 months ago
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My girlfriend and mother to my son cheated on me not long after he was born, I fought really hard to kep the family together and had to move out for a bit but we got back together.I found out she'd carried on seeing him. She used to say things like "I hope you have a car crash and die." Now things seem ok but we rarely sleep together.I met someone who's caring and completely on my wavelength. she didn't want to be the kind of person to have an affair but we slept together and I didn't hide that I felt guilty. She seemed really down by this and started keeping me at arms length. Now she says she just wants to be friends but I've realised I love her and want to be with her. What can I do to bring down her walls and see how I feel? and mwyabe make her remember the feelings she had for me? (she's acting like she never said any of the loving stuff she said)


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4u2nv      When: 11 months ago
Do what your heart says! It is obviously saying to go off with the girl you love. =] go back to her before its too late. Buy her roses and chocolates and tell her sorry and that you want to be with her because you really care about her. hope this helps
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Meggi
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Meggi      When: 11 months ago
this is a bs story
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Question Asker No it's not :( life would be so much simpler if it was. - 11 months ago
 

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wally      When: 11 months ago
do the besst thing for you'family .
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AJtogo      When: 11 months ago
Start by ending the "relationship" you have with your gf. At least it will show her that your intentions towards her and starting a relationship are good.
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