I think I love this girl and I need advice. How can I ask her out?

The good news is that you're talking to this girl on myspace. Question is---do you chat with her, or do you send messages back and forth? What you need to do is start flirting with her.

You mentioned that she said that whoever you marry will be a lucky girl. This is when your flirtatious comments should kick in and say something like...'well then, do you want be the lucky girl?' and follow that with the emoticon of ':P' From there you can see what her response is.

But if you're nervous about it, your creativity will not be there to help you, so you gotta control that, and just increase the flirting.

Now, the only bad thing is that this comment she made about you being a nice guy, and another girl being lucky---well, when girls have told me that in the past, most of the time they weren't interested in me in a boyfriend kind of way, but I always tried get more info in a flirtatious way to see how I would proceed. It could also be that she thinks you're not interested so it can go either way.

Your mission should be to flirt in a funny way, and make her laugh, and make her enjoy her time with you. If you're all uptight and nervous, you will scare the girl away.

You said she is 3 hours away----does she ever come home? When she is home, what about going out with her? But don't think of it like a date, think of it, you'll be hanging out. The moment you start thinking, 'I have a date, I have a date' then you'll get nervous and screw it up.


That's the other thing---how to ask her out. Very simple man. If you were chatting with her all you have to do is start with, 'so when do you come home next?' For demo purposes, let's say she says: first week of January'
Immediately you follow with: " Geez...that's terrible timing." (you wait for her to reply, and most likely she will say, what do you mean that is terrible timing.."). So you say.."That's my busy week, but because you're a cool gal, I can make some time to hang out with you and hear about all your college adventures. I know you got a busy agenda also like mine, so I'll make it easy for you---what day can you pencil me in to hang out with you?"
Now, I did that all in one paragraph, but you can break it up...

My point to you is that you're kind of being a bit funny and flirtatious, but at the same time you're making her give you a time. If you were to say, "hey, lets go out on such and such date," then she can say, "oh, I'm busy that day." And also you could scare her. However, if you can pull something like what I typed above, she will feel relaxed about it, and won't feel the pressure that it is a date. Then is up to you to seal the deal. Just don't get caught up in the mentality of 'i have a date' cause then you'll scare her off.