Me and this guy have been friends for 4 yrs he is my best friends cousin. We aren't allowed to date or hang out because of our families(long story). So I was in a 2 yr relationship with another guy and we broke up in july. I dated around but I couldn't stop thinking about the guy I'm not allowed to date. So I texted him and he said that he would come over and we could have some beers and just talk about it. He came over like every day that week and just hung out. We did this for like a month and then his family was going to be out of town. He wanted me to stay over and we got really screwed up and had sex. Then he went back to college but we still talked for a few more weeks before he said that we almost got caught and he didn't want to deal with his fam catching us and bitching. So we stopped and I still hang out with his cousin and what not. Well he got a girlfriend for about a month or so and then he cheated on her with me(i know very very bad!!). He broke up with her and we then started talking and had sex then we didn't talk for a few more weeks(mostly my fault). Well he texted me the other night and asked me how things were and what not... Then I spent the night out at his house with his cousin and we had sex when she was sleeping. Then he didn't talk much the next day. But then the next he was uber perky and kissing me and whatnot and we all went sledding and he drove my truck, I had a hundred bucks to fill my truck up but he did it for me and the bought beer.(his cousin and her b/f we with us). We went back to their house and we managed to get away from everyone and he gave me a kiss good night and said see ya soon. The thing about this is he talks to other girls and hangs out with them. He said that when we can be together everything will be fine but until then he will hang out with other girls but he will always come back to me. I don't know what that means!?!!??
It means either one or two things....one he is not ready for a serious relationship....and wants you as a back burner girl because he knows you can and will always give him what he wants when he wants it. or because of the family situation he really wants you to wait and the hanging out with other girls doesn't mean that they are automatically "doin" it .. guys have female friends just as you have male friends. yes they probably imagine them naked just like they would every other moving thing on the planet but doesn't mean that he actually would do her. so don't stress females unless you SEE a reason to.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 11 months ago
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