Well bare with me here, me and this girl have known each other for 7 years met camping years ago and we live in different states Wisc/Minn, about 6 hours away, for the last seven years we have grown close she has dated other guys I dated other girls but we knew we always loved each other we'd see each other a lot. Now I am moving only 2 hours away and we both started out really excited and talked about starting a relationship once I make the move. But the last 2 weeks have been difficult I'm moving in a week. I texted her after talking to her and getting a real bad vibe. and we are to the point of exchanging I love yous. So I texted her saying I love you I hope you feel the same, no response I go to bed and just wait to see what she says the next day. Mid-day comes along no response so I text her again saying call me asap. No call so I call her later that night, didn't answer, the next day rolls along I text her a few times asking what's going on, no response so I call her still ringing so phones not dead. Finally she calls me and tells me she left her phone at a friends all weekend. But I ask her well wouldn't have her phone died of not being charged for so long because it did ring... she feeds me this story and I feel like I'm getting straight lied too. Then I ask her what do you want to happen when I move down there are we gonna try to make something work, she says no the distance would still be too far. and I know I can see her 3 times a week. and the rest of the week she has been very secretive and won't answer some more of my texts or calls? What is going on? Is there someone else? She blames it on family problems but I don't know.
Sounds to me like she might have a boyfriend that she is trying to hide. Or maybe hide you from him. First thing you need to do is back off some. No one likes to be pestered all day long with calls and texts. That will drive her away for sure! Take a few days off from contacting her at all so you don't seem needy.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 11 months ago
asked 3 days ago
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