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Do I really wanna break up with him?should i?

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)     When: 8 months ago
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Okay so I've been with my boyfriend for 2yrs. &7 months..at first everything was nice sweet and love was in the air...but from the last summer on he's changed so much..we barely speaking on the phone unless it's arguing.

I try to see his view by telling him to call me at 11 he calls at 2am. He's said a lot of things that have hurt me. Yet I'm soo attached to him now. I love him a lot. He doesn't listen to my point of view no understands that I'm not perfect...although no one is perfect I'm starting to see some qualities I really don't like...pleaseee help!!

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Konvicts (Age:Under 18)      When: 8 months ago
Don't stick with him because your attached.You should be with a guy who will make you happy,and not argue all the time.If he loved you then he wouldn't say things that would intentionally hurt you,has he even apologized for it?

If he won't try to understand from your point of view,dump him and move on.No point in trying to fix something that don't want fixed.If you want to make him feel bad,give him the cold shoulder and try to hang out with different guy friends,that'll make him jealous.Just remember not to take things too far.

Good luck with your decision.
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kittykat (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
From experience I know this; you should let him know that you love him and how you feel about his actions, and tell him you don't need to be in a relationship like that, get tough with him, be mean, and see how he will kiss your ass that is if he still wants you.(then he will do something about it, once he realize what he is about to loose, because he won't know what he have until is gone,) Hope everything works out in the end, hopefully you guys get to work things out, if not then it means you were probably better off without him.
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DeanW I disagree - telling him that she loves him and that he better shape up only enables his behavior. She'll have to maintain it by going through this over and over again. If the guy doesn't act right on his own, then the relationship is doomed. - 8 months ago

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candeeroo82 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 8 months ago
If you'er not happy then you should end it. You shouldn't stay with someone because your attached. You have to be happy to keep him happy so it sounds to me like it's over.
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