Me and my girlfriend had been together for a month but I don't know why we seldom talk together. She told me that she was not sure of her feelings at first. But after that she told me actually she felt insecure, she doesn't want to be too indulged in the relationship and eventually get hurt. Although I tell her many times how much I love her, it doesn't seem to help.
Can someone please teach me what can I do to make her feel more secure and eventually talk more to me!? I am scared that she may just break-up wih me, and I don't want it to happen! I asked her quite a few questions,but she always answer me with a "I don't know"
Update: Thanks for your advice. I did pay for her when we go out but she told me she feel weird by not paying any single cent. I am quite lost actually. Hmm yea I will give her some time..
11 months ago
Well since she is insecure saying you love her does help but she needs more. She needs the security of having you all to herself. She is just scared that you might just stop loving her and break it off easily. So little hints to her that you love her will help like compliments and showing her off to friends and family and even simple things like paying for her when you go out. Just tell her you will be there for her and that you really do like her. But yeah you do have to give her time.
Ok look, you're going to have to give her time. You can say how much you love her until your face turns blue and her feelings will stay the same. She needs to learn how to not feel insecure, try doing things you wouldn't normally do. Let her know you love her by using actions, not just words. Sure it may take some time, and you'll be dying to know the answer but you can't rush love. Let her figure out what she wants and straighten her priorities. Time is the only thing that she needs right now.
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