I met this guy a couple of weeks ago, we spoke online and everything was fine. Then one day we decided to meet, so the day we met we talked about our interests, when he asked me to talk about myself I didn't know what to say.
But I really like this guy, he was so sweet when I first met him, but since that last day I met him and spoke to him was the last time. He stopped calling me, he stopped talking to me online and just doesn't seem interested anymore and he's really outgoing and I think I got the wrong impression. He is avoiding me isn't he???
Update: I spoke to him yesterday, I confronted him and he said not at all and not to think that!! =] hopefully we'll turn our friendship will be more!!!!!!! =]
11 months ago
Sometimes it is easier for people to detach themselves from any relationships by avoiding communication altogether in hopes that the other will just fade away. Sometimes it is better for both parties when people are not as direct about why they are not interested because a lot of times it could be superficial and embarrassing for one to admit their repulsion and embarrassing for the other to receive this information.
Maybe that moment that you were unable to give this guy a great story about yourself he lost interest. Unfortunately, we put a lot of emphasis on first impressions and this guy may not see that it takes a lot more than one meeting to really get to know a person. Whatever you do, don't lag on to this guy wondering what happened and what's wrong with you.
Just remember this feeling the next time a new date gives you a not-so-interesting response to one of your questions because you know that behind an answer is a million facets of a person's character that can never be summed up in response - unless you are Shakespeare or some awfully poetic speaker.