Does he really care?..confused.

This guy won't even claim you as his girlfriend? That much right there can tell you that you deserve better. If he gets mad when guys approach you, just exactly how much trust does he have for you? Don't waste your time with a guy like that. You want someone who will be proud to have you as a girlfriend, and give you a little more credit and trust when it comes to talking to the opposite sex. If you think he will hurt you, chances are your intuition is right. If you play it safe you are less likely to get hurt.


I suggest you distance yourself from him, and make him realize how much he needs you. If he truly loved you, he would at the very least attempt to keep your relationship strong with him, even if it meant long distance. You need someone who won't control you or get mad over every guy that comes up to you unless they have reasonable doubt. But hey, relationships are based on trust and love, and it sounds like this guy doesn't have either. Stop with the physical contact, and let him know how you feel. You shouldn't drag this on too much longer without knowing how he feels. Remember that this could end in many ways, be prepared for the worst but always think positive. If this guy isn't the one I'm sure there is someone better out there for you who will respect you.

You're "together" but you're not? Sorry, that's BS. If he wanted to be your boyfriend he would be. He is kinda stringing you along and playing you. You can do better!

I agree with smiles18 when it comes to letting it go. You seem to really like the guy but you have to think about what you just said. He gets made at you if you want to go out with friends or if a guy just approaches you. It's not going to be a good relationship, if he is going to be that controlling. You'll meet a great guy in college who will want to be called your boyfriend. But it's up to you. This may sound cliche but listen to your heart. If you honestly feel that it doesn't seem to be going anywhere, then end it now.

If things are meant to be then they will be the timing may just not be right for right now. But to me it sounds like he has something to hid otherwise he wouldn't get so mad so easily. I say let it go you'll find someone in college that will be better just have fun your senior year and see what happens in college.