He was just trying to save his butt, because he got caught. I would be very happy if I were you - you learned now what kind of guy he is, before you got involved. Thank him for messing up before you got any deeper with that relationship.
This is like the guy who fell out of the "20 story building." He went by every floor saying "I'm doing alright so far." Until he got to the bottom and had to face reality. Splat!
Until this guy got caught it must of seemed alright to him, or else he would of told you about it or had the "cahones" to end it (which from what you wrote, he doesn't). What are you going to do if this happens again? Your going to have to catch him again. What if another girl is more convincing than you and he starts an affair w/ another girl to have both of you caught by her. I know this guy is your boyfriend but his priorities are about as much in order as the "guy who fell off the 20 story building." Anything can happen here.
Don't let yourself get caught waiting at the bottom of this "20 story building," waiting to catch this guy again.
Let me get this straight. He cheated on you, with his brothers wife, to end their relationship? But he wanted to keep the one he had going with you?
Sounds pretty complicated. Either way, he cheated on you. That answer he gave you is not even worth forgiving. I mean if he's going to cheat, he can at least defend himself a little better. You deserve better than that. Once a cheat always a cheater. Even if he promises not to do it again you will always be scarred at the fact he betrayed you before. I would suggest you look out on whats best for you. Do you want to stay with a man who cheated on you? Or would you want to find a man who deserves you and would be loyal.
Your right that I am thinking that he is cheating But we also have a little girl together she is only 5 months so I have to think about her to. I do want a man to be with me and only me - 11 months ago
I would but we have a 5 month old together, believe me I know its not healthy - 11 months ago
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Yes, but sometimes no father is better then a bad one. Like everyone else who isn't emotionally involved has said, find your little one a better male figure. We're all rooting for you! - 11 months ago
Seriously? He is only covering his behind. Run from this guy.. First his brother's wife? Hello any morals what so ever? I would not even acknowledge his existence. His brother's wife?
Ha dump his ass show him d door the idiot if he can do that to his own brother he can do worse 2 u!! forget him no matter how much you care 4 him you deserve better xx good luck x
Leave him. He's a cheater. I don't care what his reason was. That means if he didn't get caught he would still be sleeping with another woman behind your back. If he really wanted you, he wouldn't have slept with her in the first place. So, he's just saying that so he won't lose you but he has no respect for you.
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Don't call! You already did many times. Send a txt message instead and just say good night, nothing else. If she wants to talk she will call if not you can call tomorrow.
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When: 11 months ago
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