My fiance was in the army for three years before we met. We have been together for almost two years and we are to be married in nine months. He recently confessed to me that when he was over in Germany he had quite a few sexual relations with women when he was drunk. They were women he did not know and would never see again. He assured me that he had been tested multiple times for any STD's.
But in a most recent confession he told me that one time when he was with a strange women from the bar; he told me that during sex the condom broke and there was nothing left of it when he pulled out. He never said anything to the woman and I am worried about illegitimate children. Should I be worried, and what worries me more is that he did nothing to ease my fears. I don't know what to do!
If I loved him unconditionally I don't think it should be an issue. He told you the situation and aside from lying I'm not sure how else he could ease your fears. He can't ease your fears if he doesn't know! Be thankful he at least disclosed the fact an accident occurred. Then IF a kid shows up on your door stop you'll know why. Chances are, that won't happen, but on the off chance it does you won't be surprised.
In the event it does happen ask yourself how bad could it be? He's forced to take responsibility for his actions? It would suck, but it's not the end of the world.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 11 months ago
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