Ok so I've had a lot of girlfriends...Many good many bad... But I've been stomped on and thrown out the hole deal by all of them I can honestly say I've never broken up with a girl. I've also actually decided that I do not want kids at all {personal reasons} so here it is...All I want are casuals. What I mean by casuals are friends with benefits but the thing is I want them to look for a boyfriend. If they find one we stop. That simple. I have all intentions to let them know that I'm not looking for a relationship anymore but I'm 'free' so here's my question... Am I in the wrong in any way? Or is there anything wrong with my theory?
Update: crap I screwed up the title and it won't let me correct it its supposed to be "wrong at all"
10 months ago
As long as you set your ground rules from the start and the girl knows exactly where she stands then there is no problem. The only thing wrong with your theory...what are you going to do if YOU fall for one of the girls and she's busy looking for a boyfriend? :o)
Ive thought about that and I think friends are easier to keep then girlfriends and ex's. I would much rather keep someone as a friend. someone they can rely on with no strings. Then lose them if something bad happened - 10 months ago
No, as long as you're honest with the girls, you're entitled to want what you want. Some girls are ok with just casuals and some aren't. As long as you're honest with them, everything should be cool.
I don't think you're in the wrong at all. It might get difficult if a girl ends up falling for you and becomes attached. But the only problem is, what if the girl doesn't want to look for a boyfriend? Other than that, I think it could work and you aren't wrong at all. That is what you personally want, nothing wrong with that.
I've put that into concideration that's why I would let them know where I stand and that I will ALWAYS be around but if they can handle that then we can just be regular friends so there is no sexual attraction - 10 months ago
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