Ask a Question Answer a question Read/Write Articles Rate Members Watch Videos
Read Articles
Sign Up










  Anonymous User

Did he cheat?

Average Rating: Not yet rated!
Your Rating: 
MiserableBoringEnjoyableInterestingFascinating
 
Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)     When: 11 months ago
Views: 128     Category: Relationships
When I was six months pregnant I took my son camping with my mother without my husband. He said it was fine because it was only for two days. When I came home about a month later I noticed on our myspace account that he and my mortal exbff from high school were talking which isn't unusual but they were talking about her coming over my house because I was gone. Then talking about him going to her house (she lives in another state). So I was very hurt and upset for a long time.

He claims it was all joking because they both knew how much I hated her and he said it has been a long running joke that if they were to get together even as friends I'd have to be on vacation. Keep in mind he hadn't touched me in 2 months. He thought I was crazy to get mad but a year and a half later it still bothers me that he acted like it was nothing and I'm the one with the problem. Should I be suspicious or not?

3000 characters left  Anonymous Spell Check Spell Check
 Report Question Widgets Note This
Answers
  Hide Comments From Guys  
2
From Girls  
1
 

What Guys Said

sqyntz
800  
sqyntz (Age:18 to 24)      When: 11 months ago
Yes you have every right to be suspicious he should never even have joked about something like that!! Honestly he prolly got horny and wanted something to happen with her so I wouldn't be surprised if he actually did do something while you were gone!! Guys just don't up and talk to other girls like that unless they want something to happen with them so your feelings are justified and I would even confront him straight up and asked him if he cheated!! If he cared about your feelings he never would have talked to her!!
Do you agree?
Agree   0 Disagree   0
Report

LuvTheBeach555
1030  
LuvTheBeach555 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 11 months ago
You have to give a little more detail... It was wrong for him to be insensitive to the fact that you didn't like the fact that he was doing it... He shouldn't be making jokes with anybody little own your exbff at your expense... But if it happened over a year ago and you haven't caught him doing anything else or he hasn't given you any other reason to be suspicious about him then I wouldn't worry about it... Has he given you reason?
Do you agree?
Agree   0 Disagree   0
Report
 

What Girls Said

littlesenorita
623  
littlesenorita (Age:18 to 24)      When: 11 months ago
First of all I need to get this off my chest: I HATE MYSPACE! Everybody gets to know other people's business along with other problems too. When I get married I won't have a myspace and neither will my husband, that will be one of the agreements before we marry...

Anyways, that was a cruel joke if it was a joke, especially with you being pregnant and just in the two days that your gone he wants to start some stupid joke with your enemy? (probably ex bff for a reason)

Well sometimes men do stupid things, and you don't want to hold a grudge against him forever, that will just make you miserable. Tell him that ever since the incident you can't get any peace of mind. Tell him you just want to move on with your life and leave this in the past. Say that if he needs to tell you anything he should say it right now and that your going to listen and work through it, if he doesn't have anything you need to know he needs to apologize, delete the myspace account, and spend alone time with you.

Is it suspicious, yes, but move on and forgive. I know it is not good to "test" the man you love but...you could create a "fake" myspace account with another woman's name. Go to google, click images, type in "girl" or woman and make that the profile pic. Make the account on private, and message him. Say that you're new to the area and looking for a sweet, available man to spend time with. Meanwhile, tell him your going somewhere for two days and see how he reacts to the other woman.

Or you could just forgive and forget- your choice
Do you agree?
Agree   1 Disagree   0
Report
 
Question Asker I'm not holding a grudge just every now and them I wonder about it and I closed our myspace account right them and there. I guess the thing is that he was so not reassuring about the whole thing. Thanx 4 your input though. - 11 months ago
 
Find more questions on did he cheat     
Home > Relationships Questions > Did he cheat?
 
   Not a member yet? Sign Up for FREE in 1 easy step!
  
My Icon
0
Questions View
Answers View
Stories/Articles View
Messages View
Shout Outs View
Reality Check Create
Notebook View
GirlsAskGuys on Twitter.com
Advice on Video
Relationships Videos
Click on video to play

Advice: How to Be Romantic
Is it more difficult to be a guy or to be a girl? Guys v. Girls
Anonymous User asked 3 days ago

More difficult to be a guy

More difficult to be a girl

Browse Categories: Flirting  |   Dating  |   Relationships  |   Sexuality  |   Break-Up  |   Behavior  |   Style  |   Other                                         Home Top
  Site Links     About GirlsAskGuys     GirlsAskGuys Widgets     Help Us Improve!   RSS Feeds
Home
Videos
Partners
Search Questions
Terms of Use, Privacy
Help
About Us
Contact Us, Send Feedback
Sitemap
Advertise With Us
Links
Post your questions on your blog, website, or any social networking page. You can embed into MySpace, Facebook and more. Click here for more info.
Have a suggestion? See a problem on the site? Click here to give feedback and suggestions on the new GirlsAskGuys, and help us give you a better experience. Visit our blog here
 Subscribe
Add to My AOL
Add to Google Reader or Homepage
©2008 girlsaskguys.com™. All Rights Reserved.