My boyfriend has seemed generally not fussed since we met, barely speaking etc. He was made redundant 2 months into seeing me (threat was there fro our 2nd week together). Anyway, have been getting very upset with him. The other day he finally said, I do love you, then said look, and sat me down. He said thta when we first met htat he hadn't been looking for a relationship, that I seemd nice and he'd see how it went, but then there was the threat of redundancy and then actual redundancy and the chances were that he'd have to move away and that he'd been deliberately evasive and non-commital because he didn't want to get hurt.
Doe this sound like he has just come up with an excuse. Would a guy do this to someone that they really liked? Or would the fact that you liked them so much take over, and you owulnd't be able to stop yourself seeing them.
1ST you need to find out y he love you after 2 months. Did you kiss him? Did you have sex with him? I would b worried about him if he saying that he love you after 2 months. I need more info about Ur relationship...
Men don't like to put women under pressure. So his explaination of avoiding saying. "I love you, but now I need to move away, cherr'o, I'll send you a postcard." Is very plausable.
Footnote: how long have you been going out. As a general rule I think that if someone says I love you less than 3 months into a relationship then that's a red flag sign of problems to come.
4 months but in that time he has to be pinned down to when he is coming, he never seems fussed about coming, never fussed about sex (although he says as he is my first he didn't want to pressurise), doesn't really speak to me, walks in silence etc, this has made me nag and nag and nag at him (possibly making him back off more). Was a pregnancy scare recelty and he said he'd want abortion, stay with me if I kept it but hate me for it. - 10 months ago
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