That's pretty tough for me to deal with alone so I need your help. My friend (guy) yesterday he told me that he liked my Girlfriend so much and he told me to tell her that because he was shy to tell her, so now I'm supposed to tell her.. the problem is she likes him as a friend because she already has a boyfriend and she loves him..I respect that truly but when he was talking to me yesterday he was really desperate and he told me if she said no he will kill himself. I've already discussed the situation with my girlfriend but that's when he was giving her signs but she said that she is already in love with someone..but now it's serious.
I don't know what to do? I don't want to hurt his feelings? What should I do? please help
I think you should sit down with the guy and tell him that is stupid to think that way... that there are many girls out there that he could meet.... does he know that she already has someone else? otherwise, tell him that she has been in a relationship with a guy or just tell him you don't think you are the one to tell her that or something.... he cannot manipulate you or her by saying that he will kill himself if she says no.....i mean that is a problem that is why you should talk to him in a subtle way and try to make him understand.... how old is he? I thin maybe he just want attention .... when you talk to him try to tell him not to get desperate or stress about that, tell him to take things slow, that he is young blah blah blah ... I mean just advice him!!!
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