I was 8 months pregnant when my boyfriend went mountain riding with 2 of his friends. He left at 9 that morning and I got a call at 11 that he was at my cousins house. I tried to call from that time till midnight and he never answered. He showed up at 2 in the morning drunk and telling me this tale about getting stuck in the mountains twice. Maybe 30 minutes later my cousin and her friend show up talking about how she just about got f**ked and so on. I didn't tell either I knew he was at her house.
Next day I explain I got the call and how I called him and how I knew that there was no way you go to mountain on rainy day and come home dry and clean. But he still lied.
Finally he gives me this story that they went riding around and that the girls put on a show for them but he wasn't interested. That's still all I know he insists he has never cheated on me and I do believe him I think. I just can't let it go what do you think I should do?
First of all, you have to think of the baby. I say give the guy the benefit of the doubt, but tell him to move out(your not convinced right now and it is causing too much stress),tell him that you will be glad to do a paternity test for child support and of course he can be involved with the baby. That should convince him that you are serious, and that he goofed big-time. He has lied to you either way. So he will come clean or you will going to court. Good Luck.
Are you thinking that he almost cheated with your cousin? I'd drill your cousin about it - blood is thicker than water. That does sound really shady. I'd think that he wouldn't be able to keep up his lie if he slept with someone else or at least his answers and behavior would suggest guilt or regret. Likely, if he did "cheat" it was less severe than sleeping with someone. Unless you've got concrete proof or a confession, however, I wouldn't break up over it - especially if you have a baby together.
ladyredbone
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
If something did happen and if he did cheat he's likely to do it again so keep your guard up...if not then ask more questions and try to get deeper into it...(ask about a million questions and when you think you got him go back to #1)
I have read, quite a few times on here, about wanting to find true love at such a young age (or feeling someone had met 'the one' and thus didn't want the relationship to end despite the fact...
I used to feel guilty about having 'bad' thoughts about other women after I had a permanent relationship...and even while dating on a steady basis, before that. But with the wisdom of maturity I have...
(Age:30 to 35)
When: More than a year ago
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