Whenever things seem shady between me and my guy I ask him what was going on. Him in return gets mad at me saying I don't trust him. I get upset cause he gets defensive from me asking a question and if he just answered it I would believe him. Is asking questions really a violation of trust?
Asking questions simply shows curiosity. It is, however, violating trust if you're asking personal questions that don't have any true reasoning to think he's doing something wrong. Often times, if a guy gets awfully defensive about questions you ask, it could very well mean he's hiding something from you. If he has no reason to say you're violating trust, or if HE's the one violating trust, then you need to do some talking.
Is this violating trust? He told me that he would call me after a party that ended at 8. 1am came around and I asked him what happened and he said he just got to his friends house to play video games. I asked him hat happened between 8 and now and he admitted he took a girl home after the party. I asked why he didn't call me and he said I'm not married to you I don't have to tell - 9 months ago
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You where I am. Then he asked if he thought I was cheating on him and I told him honestly the thought crossed my mind and he blew up on me saying I don't trust him and made me feel like the worst girlfriend in the world. - 9 months ago
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Ohh, Yikes. Sorry girl, there's definitely something going on there. Trust me, I've very recently been going through such a similar situation. I know you hate to hear it, but this guys definitely NOT all that innocent. - 9 months ago
kk I know it might be annoying but its not something to get mad about it shows that you really care about what's going on and that you're there for that person but if he doesn't want to talk about it he should be mature enough to just say so.
This is real funny! Me and my boyfriend just talked about this last night. I am kind of insecure and don't know if I trust him. So I talked to him about and he told me to ask questions anytime its unclear and he would gladly clear everything up. So I don't think it is a violation of trust, it just making sure there is clarity in you guys relationship. The fact that he overreacts is a warning sign to me, its no sense for him to care if you ask questions, I rather that than false accusations any day
You're so lucky to have an understanding guy. My guy is pratically forcing me to trust him but I feel he gives me reasons not to. He lied to me about hanging out with his friends when he said he had homework that day and he's quick to defend anybody else and rarely me. He says I have trust issues but if he doesn't tell me the truth or understand when I ask questions its kinda hard - 9 months ago
I definitely don't think it is. When you ask him a question, it just means you want to know the truth and you expect that from him; I would say it means you DO trust him, you trust him to answer honestly. Usually when someone gets mad when you ask them a question, it's because they have something to hide. . . And anyway I tend to be more comfortable asking questions when I really trust someone. Maybe that's just me lol, I dunno. He doesn't have to tell you everything, but you do have the right to ask about things when you're not sure what's going on. How else are you two supposed to communicate? :]
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