My boyfriend was ignoring me for a whole week claiming he was busy. This is the 3rd time that this has happened. I told him he didn't care about the relationship and wasn't committed if he couldn't even send me a text message saying sorry hun but I'm busy can we talk later? So he calls me and I hang up because I was upset with him he was acting as if nothing was wrong and then this happens...
His response: You should consider yourself lucky you still have me and I didn't just call everything off and didn't call you back and start cussing you out!!
My response: First of all that was a rude comment to say I should be lucky (especially when he has nothing to offer and lives off his mother) It's petty to break up over me hanging up when I was just trying to avoid a fight I should consider myself lucky and end the relationship so I don't have to get hurt
His response: No comment
Then today he text me: "Hey boo how are you? How was your day I love you"
I'm confused. I don't know if I can deal with him and his childish games. He's 23 lives with his mom... no education. I'm double majoring in college right now and my life is stressed enough I need him to support me not give me shit all the time. But my main question is WHY are guys like this? WHY do guys say "baby I love you be with me forever marry me" bla bla bla... then take the girl's virginity?? WHY!?
See how much he really likes you, and put him on the spot...tell him to be honest, and if he has to think for a while I would say end it but your opinion is most important hope everything works out for the best!!!
Dude's got his brain in the wrong head. You should really just forget about him. If he's that lazy and you are that ambitious then it won't work in the long run anyways. Keep you nose to the grindstone, eventually with your eyes open you will find what you are looking for.
They do that because they are players. If anything with all your education going on, why are you with him? I always say that women don't know how to deal with men because they never either had a close brother they could talk to, or a good father that could explain what guys are after. My sister for example never ever fell for players because my dad explained the game to her when she was in her early teens. Then when she was confused about something, she would ask me or my dad, and well, she never got scammed.
When I went to college, I met many girls like you---dating total jerks that had nothing to offer. I never understood why, but many times it came down to girls having low self esteem or living in a fantasy land, or just completely being scammed by guys cause they were too innocent or nice. Seems to me you're in either one of these categories, and 10 years later after college, I guess I'm not surprised to read a message like yours.
What you have to remember that relationships are not built just in sex or sweet words. You also need emotional fulfillment, intellectual fulfillment, and of course, some level of physical attraction.
You have identified the problem already---this guy is a loser. Gather your losses, treat this as a lesson learned, and move on to guys that will have better companionship to offer. It seems you have a lot going on for you, and why would you want to spend your life with a loser like your current bf?
You ask, why are guys assholes? My questions has always been, why are girls so dumb? Cheers!
You just dissed girls but I actually agree - we are dumb and yes your sis had you and your father but mine all wanna do is shut me up when I start about it so it's good that your sister has you - 7 months ago
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I love how he dissed them tho it made me laugh and think "yeah... maybe he's right" lol - 7 months ago
Any guy who has the guts to tell a girl you should consider yourself lucky you still have me..Is not worth it! Forget him.. The same thing was happening to me and I decided to leave my bf.... He claimed he doesn't like girls to love him "to much"... For get him.. It will be for the best of things.
He cannot offer you what you want, crave and need. Perhaps he thinks that he can live off you once you graduate. You're a smart girl and you deserve better.
You think you're lucky to have him? Or HE'S lucky to have you?
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