I have been dating a guy about 9 months.. on and off... when we dated he was texting his Ex. Every wed, he went to the prayer where he's ex was. He never told me anything about it. Every time we get into some argument he would go to his ex. He did it three times and he even made out with her and stuff.
But then he would come back telling me he is sorry and loves me very much. I would forgive him again and again. Few days ago I found out he is not a virgin and had sex lots of times... For 9 months he lied about his past.. When looking at his pics I found pics with his ex's... he never threw them away... it seems to me he still has feelings for her.
He said he was sorry and loves me very much... also we had a deal that he can't drink... He told me if he drink its over between me and him.. I said deal... Guess what he drank twice.
I love him but he seems like he is playing with me. I still think about him every single day. I don't know I hate him that he lied and in some circumstance cheated on me. I don't know. I still have Huge feelings for him but I am still hurt what he had done. What should I do?
To bluntly answer your question, of course you're being played. Any other person will clearly see that this guy has no respect for you. And how you let it continue, is beyond belief.
From what you describe, it seems you also need to work on your self esteem.
I hate to say it but it think you should move on. I've seen this a lot. You are his second love. He may say that he loves you but right now his head is not in the right place. You are not his number one priority as you should be. He may come around yet but for right now I think you should just back away slowly before your hurt more. When he does come around you will know, by how he says your name and how he looks at you.
Well, if it walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck.. It's a duck. He is a liar. I would cut my losses and lose this apparently real winner of a boyfriend. Why would you want a guy who lies to you about going to a prayer? He will burn for that one alone.. God doesn't like ugly you know? You can move on, it's not going to be that hard for you. But I would lose him.
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