Soul Mate? Do you really believe in them?

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People talk about their soul mate, someone they are one with or they can connect with, personally I don't know if this is true in relationships, I think they have to give and take. I find mostly give what about you? When I hear a married couple tell me they were together for 51 years and never wanted any one else I wonder.

joecollege · Accepted Answer

High compatibility, consistently shows love though actions (Real love), longevity, a deep growing mutual spirituality (they both have a real relationship with God), and 2 complete people who choose to evolve together = Soul mates in my opinion.

I think mutual common goals, outstanding communication (do not expect them to read your mind ever), financial stability (this is for both people), and taking care of their health/ improving themselves play a part in it too. I think people really don't understand the mutual sacrifice that is involved in a marriage. I think people get caught up in emotions that it will naturally work out because they are magic soul mates. I think real love is the actions that come after the "in love" emotions fade.

Jersey1 · Accepted Answer

I have been with my wife for 33 years ago exactly today as I asked her out just after midnight of New Year's Eve. 28 years of it married. I love her but never was I a soulmate type of person. I kind of laugh a little in that there are people who have said they're soulmate and ended up divorced.

iluvgiraffes · Accepted Answer

Well I don't really think there is just one person that you can be with.....there is always a better pick.

Here is an example....so you go out and buy a Lamborghini Gallardo GT3 and then you see that there is an even better make so you start wanting the other one. Its exactly the same thing with the people you are dating or liking.....you like them a lot and then some other guy (in my case) comes and he is just so much cuter and nicer so you start wanting him.

sorry that's not the best example but w/e

But no I don't believe in soul mates.

Belleza · Accepted Answer

Honestly I never imagined there is such a thing as a soul mate or your other half...I just believe that if two people are meant together...they'll find each other, maybe that is like a soul mate but nah...can't really say I believe in it, just hope I'll find the right guy that's all - that I can be happy with and that will love me - that is if that would be your other question - do you believe in love?

a400m-runner · Answer

Ah that's on you to decide, You really can't ask someone else about that. You should just think on it and see the different aspects of it. I personally think its out there but its hard to find.

xAJCx · Answer

I didn't really either but you see people that look like they were meant to be together I honestly do think there is some one for everybody :)

ladymiss · Answer

To me a soul mate would be someone you  give ur body and your soul as well. I'm still looking for one ^^

coltdiddy · Answer

Soulmates are bullshit. End of the story. Cockroaches don't have soulmates, Animals don't have soulmates, every species just f***s what it can.

Lesae · Answer

I did  at one time...dated it, married it, found out he had no soul got rid of it!!

ZZTopChic · Answer

Well it's confusing but as long as your really happy and love the person so much then soul mate or not it's all good

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