There is this girl that I have been dating for 3 months named Megan. She went out of town. I spoke to her on January first. I left a voice mail and txt msg. On the 5th.no response. On the 10th I leave her a thoughtful poem txt msg. No response. On the 12th I call her and get her on the phone. She tells me I am an amazing guy yadee yadee yada. I say ok how about I come visit. She says awesome. So I tell her I'll call back to make plans. 13th I call back leave message no response. On the 16th I lose my top. Surely she could have sent me a txt msg or something to show she still cares. I leave her a voicemail telling her ok I get the picture it's over. 17th I leave another voicemail saying perhaps I have over reacted. 18th at 2 am I am drunk and leave a broken hearted pathetic txt msg. Along the lines of "I treated you so well but it wasn't enough" 19th I leave voicemail saying I have acted out of frustration lets just keep in touch. Finally on the 20th I stop by her place and find her mom there. Turns out Megan has been in the hospital since the 13th. I feel like a jack ass!!! So on the 21st I give flowers, chocolates and a card to her mom to give to Megan, since she is not receiving visitors. Megan really is in the hospital I know that for a fact. But the big question is now, what do I do to fix things? And do you think Megan will understand my absurd behavior?
I would stop by her house at some time and talk to her mom more if you can. She knows Meagan better than we do, here. If you explain the minor-yet-confusing and potentially out of control situation to her mom, she may be able to relay some type of message to her. Then you just have to have patience. Because this is a situation that is pretty spontaneous and out of your hands if she can't have visitors; you don't really have to many choices it sounds like. But when she gets out she may just need a friend and not any type of serious commitment. Your health comes first.
Wow! You could make things better by writing her letters and give them to her mom to give her, Make sure she receives. Try to make her laugh in the letters and also explain that you didn't know that she was in hospital and lab lab la. I'm sure she'll understand. Oh, and keep sending flowers with sweet card on them. Hope she gets better soon. GOOD LUCK
You just had a stalker moment. Just explain to her that you missed her. And had a retarded moment too. Then tell her sorry. Stop drunk calling her and drunk texting. But most of all... Stop being an idiot...:)
If the girl likes you and is not a bitch she will understand, if not leave her ass. but next time use my method call once a day for two days and then on the 4th or 5th email or text her but that's it, so next time you don't seem like a stalker.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 10 months ago
asked 3 days ago
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