Let me 1st say I know this is a bad idea. I was with someone for 3months and she cheated on me so I dumped her. The only thing was we have/ had great chemistry. I haven't seen her in about 7 or 8 months so I recently called to see how she was doing and we ended up having drinks that night. Nothing sexual happened. Although we did flirt alot, and we're comfortable with each other. I know she still has feelings for me, and I still have some for her (although I'm hiding them pretty well). But I don't know if I could ever trust her again. Or if I should even give her a chance. Help?
First, without trust there is NO relationship! But its not like your still young and people do change, what's the point of hiding feelings? Your feeling her and she's feeling you, why not take another shot at it? Only if your over the fact that she previously cheated.
once someone cheats, they'll always do it again. just like if someone lies, and got away with it, they'll do it again. even tho they say they are 'sorry'. if I were you, you can do better than going back with someone that hurt you.
keep it at a friend level. You don't want her to think she's got you so easily and do not want to make her feel like what she did will blow over soon and she will have you back again. So keep your distance with her. hanging out with her even as a friend is a little risky too, just because your feelings might develop over time if you keep hanging out with her, but it is your call. Good luck. make a smart decision.
I agree with Lost and December. You are pretty much saying you are a push over and cheating is ok/promoting it if you go back to her. So no don't give her another chance.
If you can't trust her than you don't date her. It's as simple as that. Even if you were to give her another chance it all means bunk if you can't trust her.
I woulnt get back together. If she cheated on you once, she is going to do it again. I think it's time for both of you to move on. If you really want to talk to her, just talk to her as a friend. Well sorry its not much, but I wish you best of luck!
I know EXACTLY what you're going through, & honestly I would just keep it at a "friend" level. I wouldn't even get sexual with her because then you're putting yourself in a position where feelings will come out, & potentially try to spark another relationship. Play it smart brotha
There is a reason you're hiding your feelings is because your afraid of getting hurt again. Face it if you go back with her you are only advocating her cheating on you was OK and that it doesn't bother you further giving her more reason to do it again. If you can't trust her again and you two aren't even together just imagine how much you wouldn't be able to trust her if you two WERE together. Everything happens for a reason. She wasn't meant to be in your life so if you want keep her as a hang out friend but keep your feelings for someone who deserves them and proves them self to you.
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