My girl friend is studying You. K, am in India. 2 months back she was raped by a classmate by spiking her drink. She become pregnant and suffered a miscarriage. All these times when ever I got her on phone or online I tried to console her though she didn't come in contact very often after this. All this time she got help from a friend. He did an excellent job by helping her at that time. Now she is telling that she is going to marry that guy. I know she is taking that decision just because she don't want me to have a spoiled girl as my wife. But I love more than her purity and anything else. I never thought of leaving her. Only thing I fell sad that I failed to be with her at the time of this crisis. We love each other very much now also. She is so concerned about me. Me too. I don't know what relation is standing in between her and that friend. Once she told me that he loves her like a brother or father does. With in a month or 2 I ill am going You. K as I got a job there as we planned earlier. Now is a cat on the wall. What should I do if she takes a decision against me, to recover from that emotional shock? Please help me out.
Well it could be just a way of dealing with her situation, I say I am going to marry one of my guy friends but I am not seriously. That's just my way of saying I will love you forever. If she does want to break up and be with him then be happy she is happy and then if something goes bad with that go from there. Don't stop being her friend because you two might not work out. Take chances and see where it gets you.