The father of my child and I got together in April of last year things were great between us. Never fought, trusted one another just perfect. Then a couple months we found out we were pregnant. Things were still going good we were both excited to have a child with one another. I have two other children still pretty young the father of those two signed over his rights. And the baby's father was daddy to my other two little ones. They still love him and adore him...As the pregnancy went on things got a lot harder. My emotions and feelings were way out of whack. I would say things to him I didn't mean at all. I would want to apologize like a few hours after I would say them, but he would just push it off. Saying I am doing all this on purpose and that I know what I am saying and doing. I was not like this with my other two children. So it was something new to me. The farther along we got the worse off we got. He didn't understand that this pregnancy was very different than my other two. And I would try to tell him things will get better after I have him. But he would just be like whatever people can't change. Well in October, I was about 4 or 5 months and he told me he didn't love me anymore. That hurt so bad, didn't see it coming either. I wasn't treating him like I did before we were pregnant, but I thought that he would understand and be there for me. To this day, we are still not together, but I still love him with all my heart and so do all three of my children. (including his child) He has told me before that if things are perfect between us that he would want to be a family with us, so how do I make things perfect again, when he won't see that I'm not the same person I was when I was pregant?
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He is selfish and inconsiderate. IF you have already apologized to him and he's still being negative.......quit trying. If he wants to be with you, he will come to you. Focus on your children first, then yourself.
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