Me and my FWB talked about this and said we would tell each other if we ever with another person because I guess he thought it would be gross to have sex with me without a condom (not anything to do with stds, just the whole fact of some other guy's "thing" being there) And I thought the same (he should tell me if he was with another girl) Now it's happened, I was with another guy, but didn't have SEX with him, for some reason I feel really guilty, it was actually a big mistake and I shouldn't have done it on soooo many levels, but now I'm supposed to tell him, my FWB, right? I feel like he's not gonna want to touch me / see me anymore, he's my friend, I don't want to hurt his feelings.
Update: So I told him when I saw him, he happened to be EXTREMELY DRUNK, I told him I just fooled around with a guy but didn't have sex, he seemed fine with it, he was even smiling! I think he didn't react right because he was drunk. So I saw him the next night.
9 months ago
Update: And in the morning he said, hey you had something to tell me. So I told him I already told him, then said it again. This time he seemed more put off and he left on some bad terms, and said "I'm just gonna go f*** another girl" What have I done? Confused.
9 months ago
If he's your friend he'll understand, it may take him a moment to get over the shock but unless he wants you two to be more than friends it should be okay. If you feel that he may be looking for more with you, and you definitely didn't have sex or put him @ risk for anything, then I would keep it to yourself. And I think you may feel guilty because maybe you want more from him than fwb?
Its true, I do want more, but he doesn't, which is why I'm feeling guilty. - 10 months ago
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I hate to say this, but the only way I got over my guilt when this sort of situation happened to me, was remembering when I saw him with someone else. (before we dated, still the visual of him and anyone else made me jealous/sick-2-stomach enough 2 4get! ) - 10 months ago
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 10 months ago
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