OK! I have an adult problem with a teenage way of viewing it. I went out with this guy for 2 years. We fight all the time, we break up all the time. But I love him. ALOT. We broke up and 2 days later I did a play where I met another guy and we are kind of dating. But I feel like I am cheating on my ex. After 2 yrs of kissing the same guy and seeing the same guy and everything else I just can't shake the feeling like I am still cheating on him even though we are not technically going out. I mean, he was possesive, obsessive, I couldn't have any guy friends. But there was good things too. I don't know if I should just trust my heart and go back to him, or if I should give this new guy a chance. He is really nice, I just can't get my ex out of my head. I know I should have waited to date, but I would've missed out if I didn't say yes, and I might have missed a good relationship. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
It isn't cheating, and I think you should give the new guy a chance at least until you figure out which one you really want to be with. You did jump in a little fast and maybe that was a mistake in itself. Nonetheless if you really love your ex like you say you do you should talk things out with him. Maybe try to reignite that old flame, you know?
crazngirl
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
You should just do what YOU think is best for yourself, and it's okay that you didn't wait. If your ex really cares about you then you should be with him, if not then you should just give that new guy a chance and see how things work between you.
It's not cheating but you should've waited for your old relationship to heal, because it's hard to get over someone you love and try to be with someone else and pretend that it's the same as your ex. It's okay to fight because maybe he cared about you alot. I THINK the one that you fight with mostly is more likely the one that cares the most.
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