So I went out with this guy 2 years older than me mainly because he was so sweet to me and always so easy to talk to. Lets call him guy A. Then he started to seem like a friend. I dumped him. He didn't talk to me for a month. I started to talk to his best friend and fell hard for him. Lets call him guy B. The first guy is flirting with me a ton again and he is just so sweet but I am attracted to the other guy. I think I should stop talking to both of them because I don't want to mess up their friendship. what do you think?
I think that you shouldn't get involved with either guy, so that their friendship doesn't get messed up. But I don't think that necessarily means you have to ignore them. Would it be possible to just be friends with the two of them?
I say See. At least give it a little more time, meaning be cool with guy B for awhile longer before pursuing him. You can't really help who you like so I don't think you should avoid it totally, ya know? You guys may end up being perfect together I don't know- but I wouldn't rush it. Also if guy A is flirting with you- you probably aren't being clear enough with him that you're not interested and ready to move on. That's why it's hard to be friends with ex's! I'm sure you enjoy the attention from both guys, but you need to break it down for guy A and let him know he doesn't have a chance with you in the romance department.
So I posted yesterday how I'm pretty sure this one guy I work with likes me. I worked with him on Friday and I'm pretty sure he was flirting with me...
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What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
I honestly don't have any pick-up lines really, I may flirt a little to see if the girl flirts back, and I'll then just ask if she wants to do something with me on the weekend.
How do they typically respond?
It depends, sometimes they'll flirt back then turn me down, usually though they flirt back and we end up dating