So I just got of a relationship. And 1 of my friends introduced me to her friend Victor. He is sweet and. Well honestly I don't know if he is honest. I just don't know if I should trust him. But that's not even half of my?. Well then there's this guy named Henry. He took my virginity away. (Back then I used to love him and I would do anything he would tell me. But I'm not like that anymore. )Well so Henry shows up. He tells me that he loves me and that he wants to get back with me. But then I don't believe him. 1)he left me for some other chick. 2)all he wanted was SEX. 3)He never really liked me. 4)I got back with him but he confused me wit his ex girlfriend. So now he comes in and expects me to take him back. I don't like him anymore. But somehow he gets to me. But then he makes me sick. All he talks about is having sex and how he misses me. I really like Victor. But then I think that they are both the same. I know what the answer to my own is. I just want to see what you people think. The reason that I don't know who to believe is because Victor tells me he likes me. But still talk bout having Sex. Henry does the same thing. So can you please tell me what you think! I need to know before I make a move! I just want to make sure that I have the right answer.
Go with your heart, Henry is only wants to use you like a badge on his sleeve if all he can talk about is sex and not about the other fun things in a relationship, put him to the street. He's a user!
About this other Guy (Victor), put him to a test to see how honest he is,do both guys know each other? Just remember don't judge him to be the same, he may be honest, TEST him first!
Well all guys at this age unless held back by their beliefs are constantly thinking about sex,and even they are they just don't move into it! Yes I do believe (Henry) sounds like a jerk you may be confusing the fact that he was your first with thinking you may have feelings for him. If this other guy (Victor) has given you no reason to not trust him then don't let a bad experience with the last guy ruin a relationship with the next! If you're not interested in being with (Victor) sexually right now then tell him and if he doesn't respect that then don't waste your time! All men are definitely thinking about sex constantly I heard somewhere once that they think about sex every 7 seconds I don't really know if that's totally true but I wouldn't be surprised if it was!
Yeah. I talked to Victor about me not wanting any sexual contact. He said its ok. Cause I told him bout what happen and he said he understands. But henry is still with the sex thing. He starting to make me SICK! THANX ANYWAYS! - 6 months ago
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