We hung out yesterday, a week after she'd said there's no feelings left, no attraction and that we'd never mess around or anything ever again.
We had sex within 2 hours of seeing each other, first time in 4 months. Thing is, even after we had sex she continued to flirt and be touchy-feely. WHAT THE HELL? Does this girl know what she wants?
Update: She's called me two times now today and says she'll call me later when she's out clubbing. Prior to this we hadn't talked since V-Day when she said all that shit about us never having anything (relationship or sex) ever again. Lol.
7 months ago
Update: Now she's going through pictures I have on my Facebook of memories we shared together. (I know this cause she made a comment on one of the pictures) This girl is confusing. Haha.
7 months ago
Update: Forgot to mention, that even after she got me in bed. She continued to flirt with me the whole day. Throwing things at me and giggling, rubbing my leg, grabbing my ass, tickling me, letting me touch her any time I wanted, kissed me goodbye.
7 months ago
Update: Forget it, we crossed paths today and she decided to tell me all about her weekend and who likes her and shit like that.. so it's pretty obvious I'm still not anything more than a friend.
7 months ago
It sounds like you really want this girl to want you back! If this is the case then you need to talk to HER! I have seen you update this question a few times and no guy thinks about a girl this much if they don't care about her! GO TALK TO YOUR GIRL! Lol
I'm scared to push her away again haha. I've been told to go with the flow and let things work out. Do what I do that she likes and work on the things she doesn't. Don't be so available and so far it appears to be working? Lol - 7 months ago
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Well it sounds like you've got everything under control but remember not to put yourself in the position to be anyones door mat! Good luck! - 7 months ago
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Not so sure though, since Friday she's been nonexistent, haven't heard a word from her.. lol - 7 months ago
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I'm beginning to become a little confused again! You put lol behind everything like it's funny yet from the way you're putting things it seems that you really care for her. Honestly it seems this girl has no idea what she wants are you ready to deal with it? - 7 months ago
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Yea I really do care for her and I think I'm willing to wait around and slowly show her what she's missing out on. As much as it may end up hurting. I'll just still go out clubbing and stuff to keep me busy when she's on my mind or something. - 7 months ago
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I am really sorry to hear your update but hey look at it like this you deserve much better than what you've been getting, go out, get laid and have some fun! LOL All the best! - 7 months ago
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Haha I don't know now. She started messaging me on msn tonight when she saw on facebook that I was "grumpy" and started asking a bunch of questions about my birthday party and generally acting jealous and weird. I guess I'll take it day by day. :) - 7 months ago
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This question gets more complicated by the day! Lol I am gonna say one thing though. You should never let anyone treat you this way! It doesn't sound as if this girl shares your same feelings. If you sit around and wait on someone who may never return you - 7 months ago
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Feelings you could miss out on someone really great who you wouldn't have to go through all this back and forth crap! Everyone deserves to be happy even YOU!!! - 7 months ago
Honestly it sounds like she wants her cake and to eat it too! There is also a chance that in your four months apart she may have realized that she misses you and wants to be with you. This is definitely something the two of you need to discuss. Was it only sex or something else? Do YOU want it to be just sex or something else? It may be hard to get the truth out of her but actions speak louder than words. Give her a call or whatever your form of communication and just let it out on the line.
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