Is it okay to give your lady all of the control?

I have and I love it! I am already very aggressive in bed. Taking the lead from the beginning to the end. I was not always that way. I guess I am just very in touch with my sexuality. My man enjoys being dominated in bed. I would say it has almost been over 2 years since he initiated the first move. However, be fore warned all women are NOT the same.

Yes, of course it's okay. You just need to find a woman who likes it that way. Many do, many don't. You just need to look hard until you find the right person. But since this is what you want, don't settle for less. You will only be happy if you go for it. Oh, and if you want to see lots of examples of happy relationships where the lady is in total control.

Depends what you mean by "dominate". I don't do anything drastic, but I like to be in control occasionally. Think it came with being a little more sexually confident though and I really wouldn't like being put on the spot and told to do it. I think its fun if things switch up a little in the bedroom, but you can't ask really get the other person to do this unless they want to, their personality will just come out naturally.

I did that. No respect was lost. It was just the opposite. He loved me more after.

I prefer the man to be in control in the bedroom. Once in awhile being in control can be fun, but most of the time I would rather he be. Frankly I don't really like it when a man is passive in bed.

Dominating is not my cup of tea, but I know there are girls out there who are into that.

I've found that if you do it once in a while, they love it. But if you want it often, they tend to think of you as a wimp. So, do it sparingly.

I actually don't mind it too much when the roles are switched occasionally, Keeps things interesting and makes it easier for her to show me what she likes ;)
And yeah I was with a girlfriend that preferred to be more submissive and passive in bed, But I got her to open up a little bit and be slightly more aggressive later on. Made things much more interesting for the both of us. I actually like to switch it up during the thing. Keep bouncing the momentum back and forth to build up the intensity.

I think its alright to do this for something different to spice up your sex life. Some women really enjoy playing the dominating role. I don't think its good to do all the time, however.

Whoa, hold on. Do you mean dominated totally or just in bed? Because if you mean dominated totally to where she makes all decisions and everything goes -her- way, then I don't think that there are many women that fit that category. Women like for guys to make decisions, that's just the way we're coded. If she asks "Do you like Green or Red? " you better spout off an answer and stick with it because "I don't know" or "Whichever is fine" won't cut it with her. And in bed, it's a different story. The roles can be swapped over depending on the mood of the couple. Remember: Women don't like a guy who won't make a decision because they naturally want to be dominated. Succumb to her in bed, but not in general.