why does my ex's friend at work look at me whenever I enter the store where my ex works? I work nearby where he works. I just act like his little friend isn't even there (his friend is a guy). I'm over my ex but I wonder why he still watches me? I mean it's kinda creepy. but I don't know how to deal with this. plus his friend told him I was there. and he accused me of stalking. I just go there for food because it happens to have groceries and I buy my make up there as well. why are they trying still to slander me? I have a boyfriend. I have moved on. I can walk in there and not care about my ex. but why does his friend still stare at me? thanks for help.
There are a lot of possible reasons. The only reason I've ever given any attention to a friends Ex is when she srewed not one but two of my friends over. She's been on my radar for a while and I make sure she stays away from my friend. Far away. It's just how we guys are. If that were the reason I'm pretty sure you would know why though. It is obvious he doesn't have fond feelings for you though. Your entering the place he works is making it difficult for him. Maybe you should care a little and not go in there. One of the responsibilities you get when breaking up is respecting his desire for personal space. Like his Job. His accusation of stalking is a way, an immature way, to show you his resentment and hurt. On some level his friend understands and he doesn't want you making anything more difficult for is friend. In truth your causing the drama. I really have to suggest ou find a new place to shop. Or get used to the animosity.
More than likely he guy staring is interested in you. My best friend broke up with this girl after dating her a year and for some reason I started being more attracted to her after they broke up.
girl I feel you. its weird. I feel like I'm always being watched by his friend who works there at the grocery store. and its obvious when he sees me, it just feels odd. and honestly, it still does bring out a lot of feelings in me because I am still very much in love with the guy. but he screwed me over kinda. and his friend, the one that works at that store, knows and stuff. so idk, yeah.
but I still go there whenever. hey its everyones store.
i really can't give you a good answer as to why he does that. I wish I knew. maybe ur ex still talks about you and still has feelings for you. and his friend knows this. so when he sees you, he reports about seeing you to ur ex.
but if he accused you of stalking, then...idk did things not end well between you and ur ex? because maybe its still the looking out for ur ex thing, but as in to protect him from you...
hmm. could be a few things I guess. im at a loss myself =\
they sound immature...and like creating drama for their own personal entertainment...
i think guys are naturally like bros and look out for each other, and its common for the friends of the guy to stare or recognize his ex or current gf...or even just a girl they know he is into...
if I were you though...id avoid running into him and change my local grocery store because even though you have moved on dating someone else, you should give the wrong idea you miss him by going to the place he works...i think when you break up with someone, you need to cut off all contact and traces of things that remind you of them...it will also be healthier for you because you won't be troubled by small things and bits which usually happens after a breakup...its best to prevent drama
While I do agree that guys do the whole bros looking out for their bros thing and whatnot and obviously taking note of when they see a chick they know their guy friend is into, that's not to say that she should change her grocery store, etc. sooner or later they might end up bumping into each other. both of them will have to deal with it. just like his friends. if they wanna create little drama within themselves over seeing her, then let them. she's over him. let them think whatever. - 4 months ago
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