So most girls would complain about how their guy never lasts in bed but mine goes forever. So long that I usually have to stop him because I am so sore that its not even enjoyable for me anymore. We have sex a lot! The first time we go for the day we can go for like 45 min and then he'll cum and then the next time he goes forever and I have to stop him. He sometimes gets really mad but it hurts I can't take it anymore. And we switch up positions a lot and do he's favorite ones most of the time. Is there anything I can do or does he just have a problem?
Next time give him a time limit. Tell him he's got 15 minutes to score, because you're still kind of sore from the last time. He should still appreciate it because he'll have to put in LESS work for the same payload.
You could also try learning some new oral tricks and techniques. Many girls can make guys cum faster using their mouths, because they can apply some mid-numbing suction that their va-jay-jays just can't match (but keep plenty of lube around too just in case).
Either he's taking some sort of medication or he's just very healthy. If he is using some sort of desensitizer, tell him to stop. Viagra and Cialis is only for men with erection problems, not for healthy men who want to go all night long or to be used as a sick thrill. But use more oral and intimacy stuff such as simple hugs and kisses. Hand jobs suck so avoid those. In addition, try to use lubes if you tend to get dry down there. But all in all if it hurts, stop.
Quite a common problem. Something to try is a) abstain from sex for a few days which will heighten the senses for next time and hopefully enable him to release quicker, b) try to relieve him with your hands, c) talk to him to see if this is psychological
As strange as it may sound, some individuals have a difficultly finding release because of either religious or other beliefs from childhood which make them feel remorseful when they "come" hence they can go on like the energizer bunny which frustrates the women in the process.
Most likely, in your situation, since you have sex a lot, he has developed good stamina so the senses are numbed. Perhaps more foreplay or just finding his secret button, e. G. Dirty talk, will help out. Abstaining definitely works in those cases as it builds up anticipation.
There's nothing wrong with your boyfriend, some guys just go on forever, and often times it's pleasurable for both, but once you're dry - the pain is unbearable. We've timed my ex to up to 51 minutes and there wasn't a problem.
Dryness occurs a lot for women, because they are not into it as much as men are. Lubing up can assist with dryness but not the emotional effects. Talk to him and let him know how much pain you are in when you dry up, and discuss ways to introduce lube to your love making, he'll be happy regardless. Men have a much better reaction to wetness than they do dryness - it hurts for them as well, so you'll do both of you a favor by getting some lube.
I know how you feel. It's like sometimes it's good but other times I feel bad, like I want him to go but he just doesn't and he doesn't complain he's glad that I get off but he doesn't. It more than likely is because you guys do have sex a lot.
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