My boyfriend always conveniently has to go after he finishes, sometimes he even says "no, no, I'm cum-in, I'm cum-in" I know I didn't cum, but its ok, I just want him to stay and cuddle with me when its all over but he always has to go, someone tell me why
He is scared you might fall pregnant, or he feels stupid for finishing before you do.
But I think it is more natural: Woman can have multiple orgasms and relatively have never ending sexual arousal, guys get one orgasm or max 2-3 and then lose all sexual arousal in a matter of seconds and come to a somber state and can't think about sex or have an erection for a whole bunch of hours if not a whole day. So he can't be around you then because it agonizes him. That is just how we are made and how nature intended it. If a man could have sex never ending with no stops in between, the woman would be filled to the brim and the population boom of people would be so large and all the babies would come out mutated... sorry for my frankness...
Well when a guy cums, it's like a release of hormones. Sometimes guys feel guilty after they cum if they're doing something they think is wrong. This could be why.
Why does he feel guilty if were together? - 6 months ago
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Does he go to church? Maybe he has morals, or know inside his head its wrong. Maybe it was how he was raised. With sex, or anything for that matter, there are a lot of things that we do that feel good but we feel is wrong, but we do it anyway - 6 months ago
Question Asker
Well he is catholic, maybe your right, but I still think its weird, lol could it be that he really likes me and he's scared how it will be if we break up :) - 6 months ago
Answerer
Naah, I would think that it might be the catholic thing. It's kind of funny, but when a guy is getting close to cumming, he is really horny and will do just about anything. But right after, it's almost like, "What am I doing. " It's a big change, lol - 6 months ago
Question Asker
Lmao, ok MEN! Lol so thanks for the tip that he'll do anything, how mad do you think he will be that when he saids he's cum-in, and I just stop, will he go crazy grabbing for it, or will he get mad and storm off, what would you do? - 6 months ago
Answerer
Lol now that's just messed up. Yeah I'm sure he would get pissed. But next time before sex, let him know that if he gets it, he has to stay and cuddle with you after. If he knows that he has to, then he's bound to it. - 6 months ago
Question Asker
Lmao, he's portugese, and he is very masculine, like he tries to dominate me, and I sorta let him cause I think its hot, like if he's on the web cam with his friends, and he wants to show me off, and he calls me and I say I don't want to go, he will be. - 6 months ago
Answerer
Well maybe he's just using you for sex. And that is why he leaves right after. But I am off to work right now, but send me a message if you want. - 6 months ago
Question Asker
No, I couldn't be that, he tells me I'm beautiful all the time, we hang out with friends in public places we go clubbing together, we spend most of our free time together but we just don't really sleep together plus he has to work in the morning, which I - 6 months ago
Go as in leave your place? - maybe he feels bad about you not climaxing?!?! Or is he busy??? go as in go to the washroom to clean up? - not embarassed, more likely just wants to take the condom off and clean up.
If you aren't sure, ask him and tell him you want to cuddle. If you two don't communicate, it isn't going to change and you will just keep guessing...
Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
Well we'd probably do the dinner and a movie thing but since there's almost nothing interesting around here we could sit and talk till the restaurant closes, walk around in a park, or on campus. I honestly never pay attention to the clothes on a date. Of course I'm not going to go out in sweats and an old t shirt but still. The date could end ranging from a "Goodnight" to a kiss. Plus
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
Well we could leave the date at that and talk later or we could talk once we get home. But she'll know some funny stories or some superficial stuff everyone should know. I like singing, I kinda suck at Halo, I'm really chill. Stuff like that. I don't put pressure on stuff so its really up to her how far conversation goes.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 6 months ago
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 6 months ago
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