My boyfriend has been on prescription cold medicine for the last couple of weeks and the other night when we tried to have sex he only last about a minute and then couldn't get hard again. When I told him it was okay he told me not to say that. Why? I know that it is because of the medicine and because he has been working so much lately. It certainly doesn't change the way I feel about him. Why didn't he want me to tell him it was okay?!
Because he probably feels like he failed you as a lover, and he doesn't want you to tell him its okay to do. And he doesn't want you to think badly of him, even though you don't.
He feels like less than a man. Due to the 2minute man type of saying. No man wants to be put in that category. A man wants to be able to have full control of his penis. After all that is his pride and joy. So I'm sure he did not mean to take it out on you. Some men have performance anxiety. They are very competitive and naturally want to be the best. One thing is for sure they try not to do it twice. So just be supportive. When he releases the lion again. He'll feel better.
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