Okay, so my boyfriend is my first sexual partner, but he is fairly experienced. We have a 7 year age difference. When we have sex he is hard during foreplay but then doesn't last very long with actual penetration. Is it me? Am I too tight? My first time I could feel pressure but it didn't hurt or bleed. We have only been sleeping together for a couple of weeks and I still feel the pressure like I did the first time.
Doe guys like for a girl to be tight? Am I the reason he isn't lasting? He has also been on cold medicine and working a lot. Could that have anything to do with it? If it is me, is their anything I can do to fix it? Suggestions?
Ok, I do have to agree it is because you "feel too good". Now. That is not a bad thing at all. Now it is not because he is going to hard in to foreplay (in most cases) that he does not last in bed that long. I would suggest to just make the foreplay just a little bit shorter, trying thicker condoms, and there are lube's that will actually numb the penis so you get that extra gratification.
Guys LOVE it when a woman is tight. The reason he isn't lasting long is because you feel "too good". That being said, have you tried using thicker condoms? If he has an orgasm during foreplay is he able to go for round two or three? Sometimes foreplay can get me so hot and bothered that I can't last more than 10 or 15 minutes when the actual sex starts, rounds 2 and 3 normally last much longer.
We will usually have a second round. And it will last longer, but it still doesn't last very long. I think the longest he has lasted has been about 10min. Is that unusual for a 30yr old man? - 6 months ago
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